fear they are not commited

[lunashuvgood]

Today i texted her good morning and never got a reply, i ended up sending her a snap chat later and still i got no reply.
Shes never taken long to reply, the longest has probably been 3 hours but thats rare.
Our last conversation was X rated and did not end badly at all so i dont think she would be mad at me.
How do i know this girl is commited at all and not just looking for some sort of attention.
Part of me wants to just let her know that im upset but i dont want to come off as clingy because this is a new thing and we aren't even official.
Has anyone had any previous experience with this or just advice would help.

[sasad]

Well, you say you aren't official, yet want to know if she is committed? Have you both had the talk? If not I would say probably not..
its possible she is embarrassed after what happened. It's possible she is busy or something happened to her phone. Call her?

[Elizabeth123]

Welcome to LFAD!
If you want to know what's happened you need to ask her.
If you're not a couple then move on...some people are immature and don't end a relationship they just stop talking.

[lunashuvgood]

I guess I'm just a paranoid person, she just never got my text message and had a busy day. I haven't done long distance seriously before. She actually surprised me yesterday say sing she's coming to see me. She's been driving all night and we have been talking for just 2 weeks. I know people go so much longer without meeting so I'm greatful.

[Elizabeth123]

That's a wonderful surprise! Enjoy your visit