Hey, On August 28th me and my boyfriend will have been together for three months. We are both very deeply in love. There is no doubt in either of our minds that this is "the real deal" He is 35 and has been in the service for just under 12 years now. Being LD has been easier than I thought it would be. Not to say that I don't wish like hell that I could just hold him and be with him. We are just so madly in love and know that the wait will be so worth it that it doesn't really get so us. But one thing I have a hard time thinking about is when we finally are together and married, how will i deal with him being deployed for 8 months at a time. I don't know but I just feel like it might be different after really being together. I don't really know what I am asking for. I just want to make sure that I am the best women I can be for him no matter what, and that I can stay strong for him and my kids when that time comes. So please any advise would be welcomed and appreciated! Thank You.
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Hi.I so understand where you are coming from. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and only two of those months he has been a fickleness and for the rest hes been in the military. We have never lived togethere in fact our whole relationship has been LD and the only times I have been able to see him where our two visits before he was enlisted and two vista after one for his bct graduation and one just over this past weekend. Now I share the same fear of what happens when he gets deployed Bc he wants to go and all the time I remind myself of how much we love each other and how much we have already been through and how much I am will to do for him. The way I see it is when he is gone I will be the best women that I can be I will support him and his battle buddies I will stay stong. Being strong is the most important. Not only for yourself but for him as well your confidence will give him confidence
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