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    suspicious me

    My boyfriend is away for his army training for 3 months now.I never asked for but he gave me his facebook password..I saw him sneaking in his x profile and i felt upset about him...because his words dont match his actions..
    Recently he changed his fb password...and i am suspicious he is trying to hide something...please advice am i being paranoid..how to deal with this feeling
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    #2
    You need to trust him. I don't think couple should have each other's passwords, it create too much to be upset about. Each person should have their own private space, as each person is a separate person. I think you are totally being paranoid and need to keep yourself busy so as not to dwell on the feelings.
    "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.

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      #3
      What do you mean he was sneaking into his ex's profile? Like sending her private messages or posting on her wall?

      Well I can see how him changing his password could make you suspicious, but I also think you are reading too much into it. Maybe he just had to change it because of sneaky people around him - I know I had to change mine, when my twin would log onto my facebook. Just relax and give him the benefit of the doubt unless he gives you a reason not to trust him.

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        #4
        I agree with the above two posters. If he has to start giving you passwords to instill trust then that's not good. Especially because trust is one of the biggest things in relationships. Find yourself a hobby or something or you're gonna drive yourself crazy wondering.

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          #5
          I still look at my exes profiles and I broke up with them a long time ago. It isn't because i have any feelings, just curious what they are up to. Trust him.

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            #6
            Originally posted by snow_girl View Post
            I still look at my exes profiles and I broke up with them a long time ago. It isn't because i have any feelings, just curious what they are up to. Trust him.
            I'm definitely in the same boat here.
            If you start reading too much into it, it will drive you crazy. Just try to relax and trust him

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              #7
              yes... i totally agree...he gave me his password...and now he changed it...but thats not what trust should be based on...
              i should just stop intervening in his cyber life...thank you for your precious feedbacks..

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