Hello,
I've been in love with my significant other for almost a year now, and he recently just finished Boot Camp and is starting AIT this Monday. We spoke on the phone for hours today and he told me how he will be stationed in Germany, (I'm in the United States about to finish College December 2014). He will be back home for a month before shipping out. We had a long talk about our options and what we wanted to do, and we thought about getting married. We are both in great financial standing, we both love each other very much, and we believe strongly that this would be a great option for us, but there's one thing holding me back.
My parents are strongly against it, saying I'm too young to make such a decision (I'll be 22 in the fall), and that I should wait. My man is army infantry, and we spoke about it even before he left for boot camp but decided to wait a bit longer. Him moving to Germany would make it harder for us to get married for he will be there for at least 8 months...
Please somebody give me some unbiased outside insight. I love him, but I don't want to upset my family either...
I've been in love with my significant other for almost a year now, and he recently just finished Boot Camp and is starting AIT this Monday. We spoke on the phone for hours today and he told me how he will be stationed in Germany, (I'm in the United States about to finish College December 2014). He will be back home for a month before shipping out. We had a long talk about our options and what we wanted to do, and we thought about getting married. We are both in great financial standing, we both love each other very much, and we believe strongly that this would be a great option for us, but there's one thing holding me back.
My parents are strongly against it, saying I'm too young to make such a decision (I'll be 22 in the fall), and that I should wait. My man is army infantry, and we spoke about it even before he left for boot camp but decided to wait a bit longer. Him moving to Germany would make it harder for us to get married for he will be there for at least 8 months...
Please somebody give me some unbiased outside insight. I love him, but I don't want to upset my family either...
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