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    #1

    Thats How it is, how is it for you?

    Well... The first thing I ever posted on here towards my boyfriend wasn't the best...
    And it seems like if that was the only thing I read about him then I'd think he wasn't the best boyfriend...
    He is very sweet and always says the nicest things to me. He may have his moments and I realize that, nobody is perfect C= I'm doing my best trusting him and he is really doing his best to prove I can trust him.
    It seems really silly for me to give him so many chances but I think that he really means well most of the time.. And he does always make up for it and when I tell him it's not alright to do something he stops. I really love him and I can't wait until we meet for real... We're both going to cry that day

    I know other people have problems with their relationships too, does it effect how much you love your person? Or if you still want to see/be with them? c=
    Tags: love, meet, moments, problems
    #2
    I think my relationship is a lot like yours. My boyfriend and I are certainly no where near perfect, but that's what makes it all feel perfect. We're only teenagers so we each mess up all the time, but that will never mean that I will stop loving him. From the moment we had the first 'click' of chemistry, I knew this was who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. That was nearly a year and a half ago, and although we've had some really really tough times (together and apart), there has always been love between us. I know this is something special and I didn't know if the distance would change that for us or not, but it hasn't. If anything it has made our relationship even better, and stronger. For sure I will cry when I get to see him again (and many times in between), but he's so worth it.

    Best wishes to you and your boyfriend.
    started dating: 12/08/12
    "i love you": 04/12/13
    el paso: 07/24/13 - 08/05/13
    montreal: 12/13/13 - 01/03/14
    el paso: 01/05/14 - 01/19/14
    montreal: 05/30/14 - 07/27/14
    el paso: 07/27/14 - 08/18/14
    el paso: 12/27/14 - 01/16/15
    el paso: 06/02/15 - 08/17/15
    san antonio: 02/04/16 - 02/08/16
    san antonio/el paso: 06/03/16 - 06/21/16

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      #3
      It's the same for my boyfriend and I, we seem to argue a lot, most when we're apart but also when we're together. But we still love each other, and each time we make up, it's as if we love each other even more because we've overcome something big
      No time zone or distance or anything can keep us apart

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        #4
        Exactly how it is with my boyfriend and I, we want to spend the rest of our lives togethor and everything makes us stronger. I hope you both have long healthy relationships!

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          #5
          yeah,

          same here..... more thorns than roses at the moment.... and there are times when I think it would be better if we ended all this.

          but then, right in the middle of an argument, he says something that makes me laugh.... or vice versa..... and all seems well again.

          actually, he is my first boyfriend who made it that far..... I am a very complicated person.... and so is he.... and for some silly reason.... well, we just belong together.

          and even when we talk and it turns out to be an argument, I feel deeply felt love for him in my heart...
          The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

          Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)

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            #6
            Very very true, I think that's what makes some relationships special C=
            I think that's true love at its best
            Last edited by LailaSummer; September 6, 2012, 03:27 PM. Reason: Mistake

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              #7
              Exactly! You should look towards the positive. Each time you accomplish something that's something to be proud of! No relationship is perfect, but that's what makes relationships worth the trip: getting through problems together. I'm sure everyone can agree that LDR's are NOT easy to deal with, but they do help with the formation of trust. Knowing that we're not perfect and that we make mistakes, but are all the more willing to forgive is magical. True love doesn't come easy...and no one ever said there wouldn't be challenges!
              KEEP UP THE FIGHT! <3
              Best of luck~

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                #8
                Me and my SO used to have silly little arguments all the time when we first started dating. We were both very young, I was 15 and he was 16, and it was our first relationship and we had no idea what we were doing. I had never seen a healthy relationship in my life and my mom always said you couldn't trust men. She had been through more than her share of heart breaks. So going in I had that mentality and I had a hard time with trust. But we learned and got stronger. I trust him 100% now. We still have arguments once in a while like every couple. We hardly ever argue when we are together in person. Our arguments don't affect how much I love him. If anything I feel we love each other more every day. It's just like when I have a fight with a sibling or family member. At the end of the day I still love them to pieces and want to see them happy. People aren't always going to agree. Best of luck to you and your SO. Stay strong.

                "I love you and I've loved you all along and I miss you. Been far away for far too long."<3

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                  #9
                  Yeah, I would say no couple is really ever perfect. At first, with my boyfriend and I, everything was perfect for a few months. But then we started having a lot of problems on and off throughout the year. I think those hard times just make us stronger though. Especially if you are with someone who is willing to talk through and work out all your problems. I'd say when we fight, depending on how bad it is, it makes me have my doubts about us. But in the end, I can never bring myself to say I don't want to be with him anymore. Of course, the fights/problems never make me love him any less. <3

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                    #10
                    I'm glad all of you feel the same way about your so! It's hard at some points but I think it's all worth it in the end =]

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