Teens My situation.

[Sandra17]

First of all, hello, this is my first post on the forum
I'm Sandra, from Spain, so please excuse me if my grammar fails, because english is not my mother tongue.
Well, I'll start with my story now
I've been in a distance relationship since May '12. My boyfriend and I are 300km's away from each other (I think 186mi), and we are both 19 years old.
All my familly knows about my boyfriend, he even came to have dinner to our home, so they know him. We've seen each other many times, but all those times, he has come to my city. I've never gone to his place.
Here's my problem: my mother doesn't trust in him. She doesn't let me go to his city, because she think that something bad will happen to me, since he lives in a big city and stuff.
We love each other and we try hard to see each other, but it's difficult to stay this alive with my mom not letting me go there. Should I talk to my mom about this? I'm afraid that my boyfriend gets bored of this, because it may seem that I don't wanna go there, but it's not like that...

Thanks in advance.

[Alsfia]

You should defenitely talk to your mum about it. Youre not a young girl anymore, and youre entitled to go see your SO if you want to.
Ask your mum about her worries, and if you have to, work through a compromise, go visit for a little shorter time than youd like to maybe the first time so your mum can feel a bit reassured that you manage on your own but still appreciates her help and advices?
Good luck

[BlueflamesX]

Taser and pepper spray. Plus, remind her that you have power too. I wish you both a very happy time together.