Teens Confusion! :(

[becca_british]

Hello, I'm really stuck as to what my boyfriend wants. He insists that he loves me and won't break up (that itll be up to me if we break up) But just tonight he said 'right now our lives would be no different without each other in them' and that 'a true relationship is built on physical contact' which we all know is so limited in an LDR. And then he says 'I don't know what will happen after the next visit, it may be the end of us'. Is he actually just waiting for the next visit to break up? Or is he having a rough time or doubts. I visit him in 15 days. I don't know what to do xx

[SapphireFlames]

He may break up with you. Maybe he's upset about something so he's being more pessimistic. I get like that, I don't tell it to my boyfriend, but I do get like that. When I do I feel no reason to stay because "I'm not good enough," and "LDRs normally don't work, and teenagers rarely stay with their boyfriend/girlfriend, our chances are so slim," talk to him and make sure he's ok and something isn't upsetting him. If he does break up with you, it might be best not to fight him on it, but talk to him about it. My boyfriend didn't talk to me about what was bothering him, and stopped talking to me for a while. It killed me, but eventually I got him to talk to me and he told me what was up. Don't force him to do anything, but do make sure he's not bottling everything up.