Hi! So long time no see, and I'm in a bit of a pickle.
Backstory: So Dylan and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I'm 14, 15 in February and he's 15, 16 in February. A little over a year or so ago, his mom found out about me and freaked out a bit. She was more upset that he didn't tell her about me than me in general. She knows my name and that I live in Virginia, but that's it. Since then, the topic has been dropped and his whole family has seemingly forgotten about it.
Now, Dylan lives in Texas, and recently the idea of me coming down for the summer and staying with him has come up. Now, I have never met a single set of parents that have not liked me, so I'm positive that Dylan's mom will like me. I'm willing to Skype her, call her on the phone, anything at all to prove I'm real.
The issue is, is that Dylan is paranoid that she won't like me and will forbid us from talking. She never did that previously, but she did cry and was very upset.
The plan would be, after a few months of speaking to his parents, skype calls, ect. That he would ask if I could come down for the summer.
Money is no issue, because he's well off and is positive if she liked me, she would pay for a Greyhound bus ticket or a plane ticket down there.
I'm pretty sure that my dad would be okay with it, I've stayed at boy's houses before last year for weeks, so that's no issue.
Dylan doesn't want to bring up the topic of me, because he's very anxious and it'd be awkward. I would message her on facebook, but that's awkward too.
I suggested the idea of adding him on facebook so that his mom would see and ask and he could tell her we're talking and together. (Since that's the reason why we aren't added- so she won't know)
Any ideas?
Backstory: So Dylan and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I'm 14, 15 in February and he's 15, 16 in February. A little over a year or so ago, his mom found out about me and freaked out a bit. She was more upset that he didn't tell her about me than me in general. She knows my name and that I live in Virginia, but that's it. Since then, the topic has been dropped and his whole family has seemingly forgotten about it.
Now, Dylan lives in Texas, and recently the idea of me coming down for the summer and staying with him has come up. Now, I have never met a single set of parents that have not liked me, so I'm positive that Dylan's mom will like me. I'm willing to Skype her, call her on the phone, anything at all to prove I'm real.
The issue is, is that Dylan is paranoid that she won't like me and will forbid us from talking. She never did that previously, but she did cry and was very upset.
The plan would be, after a few months of speaking to his parents, skype calls, ect. That he would ask if I could come down for the summer.
Money is no issue, because he's well off and is positive if she liked me, she would pay for a Greyhound bus ticket or a plane ticket down there.
I'm pretty sure that my dad would be okay with it, I've stayed at boy's houses before last year for weeks, so that's no issue.
Dylan doesn't want to bring up the topic of me, because he's very anxious and it'd be awkward. I would message her on facebook, but that's awkward too.
I suggested the idea of adding him on facebook so that his mom would see and ask and he could tell her we're talking and together. (Since that's the reason why we aren't added- so she won't know)
Any ideas?
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