My boyfriend and I met on Instagram and have been talking for 6 months together for 3. I live in north Carolina and he lives in Kentucky. The only problem is my mom doesn't think it's a good idea to meet,but his parents are okay with it. How do I convince my mom?
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Are you going to him or is he coming to you?
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Who's going where? That changes a few options.Comment
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If your mom isn't okay with it, but his parents are, in my opinion...he should probably come to you so he can meet her too. Maybe put her mind at ease. Or have him Skype/talk on the phone with her.Comment
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How old is your SO? Have you skyped with him/talked on the phone/video chatted?
Relationship began: 05/22/2012
First Met: 03/21/2013 - 03/30/2013
Second Visit: 06/06/2013 - 08/21/2013 ~ Proposal: 07/06/2013 ♥
Third Visit: 10/09/2013 - 01/08/2013
Closed the distance: 11/20/2014 ♥
Married: 1/24/2015
Became Resident: 9/14/2015Comment
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Let your mum Skype with his parents, to hear their reasons for letting you meet.Originally posted by Mickeyy View PostI made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
"Bız yüzyılın aşkı vardır" - We have dated since Sept. 2013. To see our full story, click here https://members.lovingfromadistance....and-our-visitsComment
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See, my SO isn't approved of by my mum, but she's trying to get her head around it. Short of your SO visiting you, you could have your mum chat to him, so she can say there's nothing to worry about. Can't guarantee it will work, but 9 times out of 10, it helps family and friends calm right down.Comment
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Im going to himComment
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He's 20. Yes we facetime often. talk on the phone/text everday all dayComment
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Are there any repercussions at home for you taking off to him?"Sometimes you just have to let art flow over you."
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Have you considered asking your mother to go with you? I'm not sure how close you are with your mom but this may give you two some good time together plus ease her mind a bit by allowing her to be there herself.
When my oldest met her on again/off again SO for the first time, she was 18. We picked him up at the airport together and we all stayed together. They had some time to themselves to go ice skating and the mall. They also had to to go to dinner with her dad and step mom. Their next visit she flew to him in Canada and I let her go by herself because I had met him and I have full trust in him to be there and take care of her when she visits.To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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No my mom would just be really upset. But if I do just take off I dont want her to think it was all his idea and not like himOriginally posted by merlinkitty View PostComment
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I've mentioned it to her but she wants him to come to me first but that cant happen because of his work schedule.Originally posted by R&R View PostComment
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