So I have been in a LDR with a girl for a little over a year now and I have just started noticing that I don't feel the same way as I first did and even the way I felt 6 months into our relationship. Sometimes I wonder if I am going to be dissatisfied with the way she looks when I meet her and I know that sounds shallow and mean, but I am just being honest. If I am going to be with this girl forever I want to make sure I am attracted to her. I don't mean to come across as being ignorant and shallow. I WANT to be attracted to her. I am really scared that I will make her sad if I decide its not working anymore. There are times when I can feel the feeling again (just times when we video call and I'm just looking at her and I just have this feeling of how much I love her). But there are other times that I see girls that I actually have met and I'm kind of friends with and I think "This girl is cute. What if when i meet her i dont feel this way towards her" Idk if any of this made sense to people reading it but i hope that you can offer some kind of insight. I want to be attracted to her. I want to lover her. I want it all to work out and to be happy with her, but i dont if what i am feeling is normal or if it is something a lot of people go through. SO that's why i came here. Please reply and dont think i am being shallow or trying to only lik her for her looks. Its not like that i am just worried about not feeling the same way towards her as i would like to.
Eugeorgian
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