I'm 17 and talking to a guy I met on the app Whisper almost 7 months ago. I really like him (that's an understatement). We've essentially been dating minus meeting in person. He's in Australia, I'm in US.
I want to tell my parents about him and possibly make plans to meet him, but I'm terrified to tell them for many reasons below. I don't even know where to begin. I know my dad wouldn't approve of him because he is the most conservative person there is. My mom could be a little more open. "Problems" are, I'm 17, he is 24. I have never dated anyone, so the first love thing is a little scary. I was raised Catholic, my dad is Catholic, but my SO is Muslim. Both of my parents can be pretty racist, especially my dad. He is from Pakistan, English is his second language.
These are all things that don't matter to me. I'm not very religious at all and don't care about the age difference or the fact that he's from Pakistan. Obviously he can't change those things about him. I know it will take time for either of my parents to give him a chance, if ever, but where do I even begin? They know absolutely nothing as of now. I would rather tell my mom before my dad (they are divorced) just because she would be more accepting.
I want to tell my parents about him and possibly make plans to meet him, but I'm terrified to tell them for many reasons below. I don't even know where to begin. I know my dad wouldn't approve of him because he is the most conservative person there is. My mom could be a little more open. "Problems" are, I'm 17, he is 24. I have never dated anyone, so the first love thing is a little scary. I was raised Catholic, my dad is Catholic, but my SO is Muslim. Both of my parents can be pretty racist, especially my dad. He is from Pakistan, English is his second language.
These are all things that don't matter to me. I'm not very religious at all and don't care about the age difference or the fact that he's from Pakistan. Obviously he can't change those things about him. I know it will take time for either of my parents to give him a chance, if ever, but where do I even begin? They know absolutely nothing as of now. I would rather tell my mom before my dad (they are divorced) just because she would be more accepting.
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