Hello ive been having problems recently with my parents after my boyfriends first visit here..he stayed with us for 20 days and we went to the beach together and many other places.it was amazing but its not like it was all rainbows and flowers , we did have some arguments.
However during the visit and after it my parents had a talk with me that made me very confused and sad. They really liked him actually they say he is a great person with a pure soul , which he is. But they say at this age i shouldn't have serious relationships like this one... They think i should just go around and date guys and not develop deep feelings. But that's not me. This isn't my first relationship , I've had a few before so i do have some experience but I've never felt the way i feel with him. We've been together for over a year and really love each other.
Our lives arent the easiest despite our young age. He lives alone because he doesnt have a good connection with his mother , his parents divorced when he was 12 or so and he has a lot of trauma from the way he was raised as a child. He goes to college now and trying to get stuff prepared to go to uni.
Me on the other hand , i grew up sort of poorly so i had to save and fight for everything ive had in life.Im in highschool and am studying very hard to make my dreams come true.I had my best result this year actually even tho my parenrs were worried that id have lower grades bcs of my relationship.Ive always been introverted and very closed off from other people(which causes me some problems) but with my boyfriend im an open book.
We are always there for each other ,support and help each other with whatever we can and we've both grown a lot since we are together.We have a plan to close the distance in 2018 when ill move to UK to study and we would be living together and studying.
Ill stop ranting now and get to the point of this thread.Do you think my parents are right?Are we too young to be so serious about each other(we are 17)?I really need some help on this
However during the visit and after it my parents had a talk with me that made me very confused and sad. They really liked him actually they say he is a great person with a pure soul , which he is. But they say at this age i shouldn't have serious relationships like this one... They think i should just go around and date guys and not develop deep feelings. But that's not me. This isn't my first relationship , I've had a few before so i do have some experience but I've never felt the way i feel with him. We've been together for over a year and really love each other.
Our lives arent the easiest despite our young age. He lives alone because he doesnt have a good connection with his mother , his parents divorced when he was 12 or so and he has a lot of trauma from the way he was raised as a child. He goes to college now and trying to get stuff prepared to go to uni.
Me on the other hand , i grew up sort of poorly so i had to save and fight for everything ive had in life.Im in highschool and am studying very hard to make my dreams come true.I had my best result this year actually even tho my parenrs were worried that id have lower grades bcs of my relationship.Ive always been introverted and very closed off from other people(which causes me some problems) but with my boyfriend im an open book.
We are always there for each other ,support and help each other with whatever we can and we've both grown a lot since we are together.We have a plan to close the distance in 2018 when ill move to UK to study and we would be living together and studying.
Ill stop ranting now and get to the point of this thread.Do you think my parents are right?Are we too young to be so serious about each other(we are 17)?I really need some help on this
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