Teens He doesn't speak :-( guide me

[Ayushisingh]

It is just me who always text or message.i mean,,,I am the only one who makes efforts .....and he replies just "hmm,yah,good,ohk"and emojis like ",,,"
Thats it he keeps saying he wants to meet me but dont really does any effort ....whenever I ask him should I do this??? He says your wish (T_T).....
Means everytime I ask him y does he do like this he...says...Babu I am a good listener I don't really speak much,and I am mostly shy whenever I talk to you,...=_=
Tell me what kind of topics should I talk about so that he also speak something..:-|

[autumn1790]

Lol, I can relate. At one point, we joked that "Okay" "Yeah" was 75% of our conversation. As time went on, we got to know each other more, so there was a little more to talk about, and he really overcame his shyness. Would your SO be more comfortable using another medium (like pictures, calling)? Does he have any hobbies/studies you can ask about? Or can you send him funny jokes/pictures?
If that just is what his nature is, you have to either accept it or move on...you can't change him and he shouldn't change for you. Maybe he'll become more comfortable talking, maybe he won't....only time will tell. You can't force him to talk or come see you--everything depends on him. Best of luck!

[C.C.]

If that just is what his nature is, you have to either accept it or move on...you can't change him and he shouldn't change for you. Maybe he'll become more comfortable talking, maybe he won't....only time will tell. You can't force him to talk or come see you--everything depends on him. Best of luck!

THIS.
Also, him being shy doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't put enough effort or that him wishing to meet you isn't genuine. It's just the way he is and the fact that he reads and listens to you can mean a lot too, by the way, especially when you see and understand how much they care.

[Chris516]

It is just me who always text or message.i mean,,,I am the only one who makes efforts .....and he replies just "hmm,yah,good,ohk"and emojis like ",,,"
Thats it he keeps saying he wants to meet me but dont really does any effort ....whenever I ask him should I do this??? He says your wish (T_T).....
Means everytime I ask him y does he do like this he...says...Baby I am a good listener I don't really speak much, and I am mostly shy whenever I talk to you,...=_=
Tell me what kind of topics should I talk about so that he also speak something..:-|

He sounds like my SO. My SO isn't much of a communicator, either. She says she doesn't know what to talk about. Before she said that. I was beginning to think I was a monstrous bore or that I had done something wrong. When I told her that, she said I was not a bore at all and I didn't do anything wrong. She just doesn't know what to say. Infrequently, she has initiated convos' on Yahoo Messenger. But I don't think she updated to the newer version. Since Yahoo dumped the 'Classic' version.
She rarely calls me. I am the one calling her. She will call me back if she suddenly misses the call. She doesn't have free LD on her phone. So I call 99.5% of the time since I have unlimited on my cell phone.

[snow]

Ask questions when you tell him something.
As long as he responds to you and seems to be involved, then I don't really see a problem.