Hello everyone, I'd really appreciate some advice on my LDR situation
I met my girlfriend in person in March and we dated for a few months. Things have been so great.
But then she left to study abroad for 4 months (2 months into it now).
She is in a country where the population is 95% male, and I'm so jealous whenever I hear the things they do. She tells me a lot of it, although some things she has told me by accident and it seemed she never intended to tell me.
The guys there make sexual comments, and try to drag her back to their rooms. According to her you have two choices there - either get a boyfriend or have every guy coming after you. I found out today that everyone there thinks she is dating a guy over there, and he tells people he takes her back to his room.
I do trust her, but I certainly don't trust the guys and I know how touchy they can be. She also has problems saying no and doesn't want to tell people if she doesn't like something to avoid embarrassment.
This all makes me so angry, and I have such a hard time hiding the anger from her. I've told her how much I hate it, and how uncomfortable it makes me, but she doesn't want to do anything because it will be embarrassing.
Despite all this she still tells me she misses/loves me etc.
Do you guys think my feelings are justified? Is there any action I should take? Or should I simply try to change my view on this? I'd really appreciate advice.
Thanks!
I met my girlfriend in person in March and we dated for a few months. Things have been so great.
But then she left to study abroad for 4 months (2 months into it now).
She is in a country where the population is 95% male, and I'm so jealous whenever I hear the things they do. She tells me a lot of it, although some things she has told me by accident and it seemed she never intended to tell me.
The guys there make sexual comments, and try to drag her back to their rooms. According to her you have two choices there - either get a boyfriend or have every guy coming after you. I found out today that everyone there thinks she is dating a guy over there, and he tells people he takes her back to his room.
I do trust her, but I certainly don't trust the guys and I know how touchy they can be. She also has problems saying no and doesn't want to tell people if she doesn't like something to avoid embarrassment.
This all makes me so angry, and I have such a hard time hiding the anger from her. I've told her how much I hate it, and how uncomfortable it makes me, but she doesn't want to do anything because it will be embarrassing.
Despite all this she still tells me she misses/loves me etc.
Do you guys think my feelings are justified? Is there any action I should take? Or should I simply try to change my view on this? I'd really appreciate advice.
Thanks!
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