Over thinking about the future!

[sarah557]

Hey guys! First of all, I just want to tell you guys how thankful I am to have found such a supporting community! You guys are the best.

So, I have such a hyperactive imagination and sometimes it really sucks. My boyfriend and I are going round 2 of long distance! I am currently in Idaho studying Health Education at college and he is in Texas with his full time grown up job! I am graduating May 2019 and then I will start my internship in June...here comes my over thinking!

I have heard so many stories about how internships turn into full time jobs...my advisor told me she probably wouldn't be comfortable placing me outside of Idaho. So here lies my dilemma... we planned on closing the distance after my 160 hours of internship in Summer 2019. But what happens if I get offered a full time job? That's a huge deal! But I am not prepared to go for more long distance.

I know this seems like such a small problem at the moment because SOOOO many factors can change. I was just wondering if any of you have ever had to go through something like this before? I just need someone to tell me to chill out haha!

[erwin1973]

Life is full of surprises, both pleasant and unpleasant. We can do all the planning we want. Sometimes it works out as we planned, sometimes it doesn't. Take life as it comes but don't stop planning. Plans can be changed.
In case you get offered a full time job? Try to save some money so you have something in reserve by the time you do move.
Every downside has it's positives, too.

[Mariaa]

My advice is, don't overthink. Just go with the days right now and do what's logical to do . Even if you are offered a full time job, it's not the end of the world. There is always a solution to everything. But hey from now until then you never know. Nice surprises can always happen 😉 your mind now thinks only about the negatives which may or may not happen

[samalamadingdong]

I totally agree with the above suggestions, so many things can change in a blink of an eye!! Try not to overthink it! Try some affirmations to get you in the mind set of right now, and if you believe in the law of attraction, start trying to manifest a job in Texas for yourself, a great way to put to use and imaginative mind

Best of luck to you!