Naughty and Nice letters

[Alisz]

One of the ideas I have for Valentine's Day is to send my boyfriend 2 letters. One being the 'nice' letter that will be cute and lovey. And then the other being the 'naughty' letter that will be, well... you know. :P We don't feel like sex is important or a defining factor in our relationship, but I know he doesn't mind the extra flirting lol. I just thought I'd share the idea with you guys. ^^

[Rach321]

It's a cute idea! The few times I've written anything close to "naughty' he's really liked it, but I also feel really embarrassed by it. I'm not sure why- we are very open verbally with one another- there is just something about putting it to words...

[Jennifer&Georgex3]

Oh, do not be embarrassed!
Being sexual in your relationship is nothing to be shy about. Sex, and other sexual 'endeavors', isn't just 'sex', especially in a LDR, I believe. It's a moment that two people do cherish. Its an expression of love!
To spell that out, it might sound a little strange, but think about it as being creative, but also being seductive and flirty! I might have to try this Naughty&Nice letter idea because it does sound fun.

George won't know what he's reading. Haha.
Great idea!

[Tanja]

I'm sure guys would love that idea! And it's nothing to be embarrased about, the more you talk about it the easier it gets

[Andy]

Good idea! I'm sure he'd like that too, go for it

[Tanja]

We all know you like it babe :P

[Andy]

Lol!! How could I not with you as my babe??

[ioanna]

i really love the naughty letters : P
i've actually been writing him sex stories, sending them in two page installments : ) i have a lot of fun writing them, and i know he'll love reading them and the suspense : p
he hasn't gotten one yet..

[Rach321]

I like the idea of a two-part story Ioanna! I will definitely try that!

And thanks for your responses about feeling embarrassed. It does help to know that sex is a normal part of LDRs, even when you're apart. Because we were able to see each other fairly often, we just kept that part of our relationship to when we are physically together. It took a long time for us to talk about it over the phone, and we have only recently felt comfortable using the webcams on skype for showing certain parts of ourselves :o So writing it out is also an unexplored territory.

It's not because we aren't open with each other at all, but I think we both are hesitant because we are worried someone is "listening in" (like it would really matter anyway.... ) I'll try something tame to begin with and see where it goes

[Tanja]

Try the Hoochy mail as well! It creates your naughty story for you. You can select from 3 levels (Sexy, X-rated, Off The Wall), just fill in a few details you want in the story and send it to yourself and your SO. I guarantee you'll have loads of fun together reading them!

[uk_girl]

Really good idea!

Myself and my boy are both....highly charged...as such.

But he doesn't send those kind of messages as much as I'd like. Gah.

I may try the letter idea if that's ok

Would be interesting to get feedback from different members when their other halves receive their writings!

[Andy]

Try the Hoochy mail as well! It creates your naughty story for you. You can select from 3 levels (Sexy, X-rated, Off The Wall), just fill in a few details you want in the story and send it to yourself and your SO. I guarantee you'll have loads of fun together reading them!

They are lots of fun!

[garnet]

This is an interesting idea... maybe one month I will go naughty instead of nice on the tenth! I'm sure Rane wouldn't object. :P

[Rane]

This is an interesting idea... maybe one month I will go naughty instead of nice on the tenth! I'm sure Rane wouldn't object. :P

Hmmmmmmmm... Yes please. :O

[Jennifer&Georgex3]

The postman will never know!