Hellooooow,,
I am Grace. 25 years old and i'm Indonesian. I have a 2.5 years long distance relationship with my Scottish boyfriend (Michael, 25 years old) who spends most of his time in Scotland, UK. I have questions about whole marriage idea because i believe it is not gonna be JUST a normal married #eehhh i mean, come on Indonesia and British??Anyone experience that ?? or ever heard about it ??
First of all, let me explain briefly about my relationship with him. Michael and I met when he came here for work in English course as an English teacher in May 2010. We wasted our two months by being best friend haha but i need to admit that the best friend period that makes our feeling grows fast and STRONG! Then, he finally show and tell his feeling to me. Sadly, he has to come back home for university to get his bachelor so he can get a better job. I wasn't that sure at that time for a LDR things but then he shows me everything with a genuine love and care so finally we both feel like we found TRUE love & soulmate. We see each other around 3 times a year (3 times in 2010; 3 times in 2011). In 2012, He visited me here (Indonesia) most of the time but i visited him once (2010). I tried to visit him again(2011) but the UK embassy rejected my visa for a non-sense reasons last January. So he visited me on last May for 2 months (uni breaks). He's working at the moment as a social-worker and has a business in energy surveyor. I also work in my family company. So, financially we're saved! Each of us met the partner's family ( I met his parents and big family and stayed with them for 3 months; He also met & fully accepted by my family and every time he visited me, he always stay in my parent's house)
January 2nd 2013, He plans to come here and i know maybe it's sound weird because we plan the engagement thing. But yeah we are planing to engagedin January and have a wedding in August (EXCITEDDDD!!) So, i am now busy find out about the marriage and VISA! The papers are frustrating and i need help. Did you guys ever experience the similar things like this (stress with the visa because of the cross-country marriage)?? Will be appreciate more if there's some Indonesians & British can help and share story regarding this issue. Thanks Guysssss xxxxxxxxxx Much love from here.
I am Grace. 25 years old and i'm Indonesian. I have a 2.5 years long distance relationship with my Scottish boyfriend (Michael, 25 years old) who spends most of his time in Scotland, UK. I have questions about whole marriage idea because i believe it is not gonna be JUST a normal married #eehhh i mean, come on Indonesia and British??Anyone experience that ?? or ever heard about it ??
First of all, let me explain briefly about my relationship with him. Michael and I met when he came here for work in English course as an English teacher in May 2010. We wasted our two months by being best friend haha but i need to admit that the best friend period that makes our feeling grows fast and STRONG! Then, he finally show and tell his feeling to me. Sadly, he has to come back home for university to get his bachelor so he can get a better job. I wasn't that sure at that time for a LDR things but then he shows me everything with a genuine love and care so finally we both feel like we found TRUE love & soulmate. We see each other around 3 times a year (3 times in 2010; 3 times in 2011). In 2012, He visited me here (Indonesia) most of the time but i visited him once (2010). I tried to visit him again(2011) but the UK embassy rejected my visa for a non-sense reasons last January. So he visited me on last May for 2 months (uni breaks). He's working at the moment as a social-worker and has a business in energy surveyor. I also work in my family company. So, financially we're saved! Each of us met the partner's family ( I met his parents and big family and stayed with them for 3 months; He also met & fully accepted by my family and every time he visited me, he always stay in my parent's house)
January 2nd 2013, He plans to come here and i know maybe it's sound weird because we plan the engagement thing. But yeah we are planing to engagedin January and have a wedding in August (EXCITEDDDD!!) So, i am now busy find out about the marriage and VISA! The papers are frustrating and i need help. Did you guys ever experience the similar things like this (stress with the visa because of the cross-country marriage)?? Will be appreciate more if there's some Indonesians & British can help and share story regarding this issue. Thanks Guysssss xxxxxxxxxx Much love from here.
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