My SO and I have been discussing marriage. We are LDS (mormon) and have decided that we will get sealed (the actual ceremony) in HIS state, and will have a ring ceremony & reception in my state. Seeing as though we don't make a whole lot of money, and we will most likely have to pay for it all. Part of me wants a big wedding, with lots of DIY and such, but part of me just wants to have the sealing, then a private dinner there, and a private dinner here. I plan on bringing my mom with me up there for the sealing, so that's 2 2-way tickets for that.
Part of my feelings behind it all is that, I understand that money is nothing to play with and it doesn't come easily. I have sacrificed a lot in my life because I couldn't afford it or I had more important things to spend my money on. I want a "big" celebration because it's not something that happens often, and that I feel I have sacrificed and been jipped out of a lot of things in my life. On the other hand, planning everything, setting a budget on a small paycheck, dealing with everything, sometimes I wonder if it's worth it. I will already get to spend the rest of my life with the person I love. And it's be better to put the money into things like, our place, a honeymoon, and what not.
*EDIT* I DO have ways go get alot of things for cheap/free from people I know. I know:
-Several photographers
-An aspiring videographer
-Several seamstresses
-An aspiring event planner
-Friends who love to bake
-A hair stylist
And so much more...
What do you think? Have any of you been in this spot? What did you do and how did you decide?
Thanks
Part of my feelings behind it all is that, I understand that money is nothing to play with and it doesn't come easily. I have sacrificed a lot in my life because I couldn't afford it or I had more important things to spend my money on. I want a "big" celebration because it's not something that happens often, and that I feel I have sacrificed and been jipped out of a lot of things in my life. On the other hand, planning everything, setting a budget on a small paycheck, dealing with everything, sometimes I wonder if it's worth it. I will already get to spend the rest of my life with the person I love. And it's be better to put the money into things like, our place, a honeymoon, and what not.
*EDIT* I DO have ways go get alot of things for cheap/free from people I know. I know:
-Several photographers
-An aspiring videographer
-Several seamstresses
-An aspiring event planner
-Friends who love to bake
-A hair stylist
And so much more...
What do you think? Have any of you been in this spot? What did you do and how did you decide?
Thanks
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