Hello,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and were in our early 20s. We recently began a long distance relationship because I got accepted to a nursing program in Jax and he lives in Tampa. He recently graduated & got a job with the Sheriffs office down there. We have plans that after I graduate in about a year, Im going to move in with him and we will see where things go from there. We see each other approximately every other weekend. Lately, we both have been receiving comments from friends and family about engagement. Like my mom said she wanted us to get engaged so we could plan a wedding and graduation for me. Also, some of our friends have made the statement that after dating that long y'all should get married. Both of us don't plan on considering engagement until after I graduate and move to Tampa. Also, we want to be able to have our lives together personally before considering marriage together. Its not that we don't love each other, we just feel its not the right time. Its just hard to deal with these comments constantly and puts a strain on the relationship a bit. Has anyone experienced pressure from friends and family on getting engaged/married? How do you deal with it?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and were in our early 20s. We recently began a long distance relationship because I got accepted to a nursing program in Jax and he lives in Tampa. He recently graduated & got a job with the Sheriffs office down there. We have plans that after I graduate in about a year, Im going to move in with him and we will see where things go from there. We see each other approximately every other weekend. Lately, we both have been receiving comments from friends and family about engagement. Like my mom said she wanted us to get engaged so we could plan a wedding and graduation for me. Also, some of our friends have made the statement that after dating that long y'all should get married. Both of us don't plan on considering engagement until after I graduate and move to Tampa. Also, we want to be able to have our lives together personally before considering marriage together. Its not that we don't love each other, we just feel its not the right time. Its just hard to deal with these comments constantly and puts a strain on the relationship a bit. Has anyone experienced pressure from friends and family on getting engaged/married? How do you deal with it?
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