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I got one of my lovelies Hoodies so cosy, but his smell not on it anymore either - might have to go buy his aftershave and spray it on
"A thousand miles seems pretty far, but they got planes and trains and cars, I'd walk to you if I had no other way" First visit 23/08/2012 - 05/09/2012 Second visit scheduled May 2013 Ended relationship August 2013
I have 2 of his shirts. Sometimes I sleep in them and sometimes I just sleep cuddled with one of them just sent one back so that he could smell it up again and send it back to me hahaha
The time before last that I visited my SO I absolutely fell in love with his hoodie! It was so snuggly and warm and smelt like him, so on the last day we were on holiday together all of his things were packed and I appeared with his hoodie and asked if I could keep it He gave me some very strange looks but finally agreed We've made a deal that whenever we're apart, I have it, and then whenever we're together he wears it, that way it smells like him for the time that we're apart
I wear it pretty much every night and whenever I need a hug
No time zone or distance or anything can keep us apart
he left his shirt with me when he left after our first visit 6 months ago. eventually it lost its smell so i sent it back to him so he could make it smell wonderful again. I just got it back in the mail yesterday. I am AMAZED at the powers scent has on evoking memories. I feel like he's here again! Best smell ever!
I used to love that too! He would always leave one or two shirts here, and his toilet articles. Secretly I loved the smell of his deodorant too, weird as that sounds. Just any smell that brings back memories, as you already said! Now that we're together (but still living apart) we both have a set of pajamas at each others house, and we cuddle that when we're not sleeping together. I guess scent is really something important
My SO is bigger than me by almost 300 pounds and a foot, but I have a pair of his (drawstring) pants, and 2 of his teeshirts and I LOVE sleeping in them. Anything of his, anything to feel closer, yeah.
My guy insists on leaving behind something whenever he leaves after a visit. He says he wants to leave them so I know he will always come back to get them I have about 4 t-shirts, 6 sweatshirts, a pair of pajama pants and some cologne and body wash he's left here now. I sleep in his t-shirts every night and even spray the pillow with his cologne sometimes to feel like he's right there with me.
Last time I went to go see my SO he gave me his PT Army shirt and his Donnie Darko shirt. I sleep in his Army shirt all the time but I keep the Donnie Darko shirt tucked away somewhere so it doesn't lose his smell. haha I'm not sure if that's weird or not but whenever I start to really miss him I can smell it and it reminds me of being with him which is so comforting.
On the last day of my last visit we just cuddled in bed for the last few hours before I had to go back to the airport and before we started cuddling I put on one of his hoodies and snuggled in it while we were cuddling. It was so nice. When it was time for me to leave for the airport he tried to give it but I wouldn't let him. I told him it looked much better on him than it did me. Which is true. I like when he wears it. lol
Met Online: 02/2012
Started talking privately: 09/20/2012
First Met in person: 09/22/2012
Started Dating: 10/30/2012
Closed the Distance 4/24/2013
I have this weird thing, but it helps me big time when I'm not with my girlfriend, she always has the left side of the bed while I always have the right, so now I'm home, I have a habbit of only sleeping on the right side of the bed, my side, and now no matter how much I toss and turn at night, when I wake I'm never on her side of the bed! Kinda like to imagine she's sleeping there right next to me. it works
"Buddha made you for me" - My SO
1st Met/Visit: Nov 2012 - Thailand
2nd Visit: May 2013 - Thailand
3rd Visit: Jun 2013 - Thailand
4th Visit: Sep 2013 - Thailand
5th Visit: Sep 2013 - Jan 2014 - UK
6th Visit: Apr 2014 - Thailand - Marry 7th Visit: Sept 14th 2014 - Thailand - Wedding Ceremony / Party
Close the distance - Sept 21st 2014 - UK
UK Wedding Party: November 8th 2014
My boyfriend is not really a big fan of giving me one of his shirts
But I hope that when I visit him in March he will change his mind so I can take something with me to hold onto until we see each other the next time..
I send him a bra of mine 'cause he wondered how big my chest was and he said when his friends saw it (he purposely left the box opened on his desk so his friends would notice tsk tsk tsk :P) they were jealous :P
He told me that he keeps the box closed most of the time so the bra doesn't lose my scent which I think is cute
Relationship began: 05/22/2012 First Met: 03/21/2013 - 03/30/2013
Second Visit: 06/06/2013 - 08/21/2013 ~ Proposal: 07/06/2013 ♥
Third Visit: 10/09/2013 - 01/08/2013 Closed the distance: 11/20/2014 ♥
Married: 1/24/2015
Became Resident: 9/14/2015
I surprised my SO with one of my favorite, and old, Pearl Jam shirts. I swear she hasn't taken it off since I left her place last weekend. I guess she likes it. hehe
"True love isn't about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated." Married April 18th, 2015!!
Distance Closed October 4th, 2015!!
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