Need some advice big time here (visit advice)

[lilspitfire]

If I understand correctly, this Bucky girl wants to come ONLY because she wants to cause drama with your Pinkie friend? Oh man, it would be stupid even if she were 14, and talking about grown adult...
Changing the place doesn't seem like a bad idea to me, when you'll tell only the two of your friends that you've invited.

That is exactly how it is. I do not speak to her. She found out that people she doesn't like (apparently two now that I invited) are going to be there. She causes drama at work (as told by multiple people not just the ones she doesn't get along with) and now apparently wants to take it outside of work too.

She will regret it though. Because I have NO qualms telling the Manager and having her tossed or escorted out in cuffs.

[80anthea]

I actually had to double check the age on your profile as it all seems very school playgroundish! You're 30, invite who you want!!!

[Emerald]

Why not just cancel and just spend the whole time doing things with just you and your SO? it might make it more special and show how well you get along for long periods of time with just the two of you. I met my SO in March for the first time face to face and we only did things with each other and it was the most fun ever! We visited a museum, stayed up till the wee hours of the morning just talking. I think we even went to this garden park thing and just stayed there all through the night. OH and we also got some yarn and popsicle sticks and did arts and crafts at some point lol. Youre a lot older than us though so that might not be fun for you, but im just saying that maybe more one on one stuff would be more special and fun for you two, and drama is the last thing you want and it would just be a little unfair to bring him into a situation like that. But good luck on your meeting! me and my SO are closing the distance tomorrow! ACTUALLY he will be here in just an hour or two, so we are going to be sleeping in the same city tonight, but its much too late for me to go see him especially since he is in a hotel with his parents.