Hey guys Please forgive my english,its not my mother tongue..
I desperately desperately need an advice of someone who understands the situation and I'll be happy to hear any opinion,even very harsh..
I currently live in Israel and the guy is from Portugal. We met on facebook 3.5 years ago. He is single single and I'm a single mom of the perfect special needs boy.
Now I have a problem and I don't know what to do...I love that guy.Really really love him. He says he loves me too...We had millions of fights...said goodbye millions of times..He even dated someone else once (well I guess it wasn't just once but I know just about this one)...But somehow we always found our way back...
From the beginning he said that if I want to meet him I need to come to him first. Twice we talked about meeting "in the middle" and both times he refused explaining it as "not worth it" since I couldn't come for more than a few days (being single mom you know).
He refused to come here first and always gave different reasons. And I thought...well...Israel...maybe he is scared.
Twice I bought a ticket to Portugal...and cancelled. I don't know..Im afraid. Something weird always comes up. He doesn't want his family to know...and many many things that he says and does that just make me suspicious.
Last year I took my son to the eurodisney and I begged him every day out of ten to come and meet me.And he refused. I need to come to him. Period.
And I'm just scared..It's not just me...I have a son I'm responsible for..
I love him...he makes me laugh (which is rare)...he is my best friend..I need him...and I believe he likes talking to me..but it seems like he doesn't want to make any effort for me. And nothing matters...Not that I'm a single mom..not that my son has special needs..not that he is sick a lot..not that I have 1/10 of amount of vacations he has...not the fact his salary is five times bigger...I need to come to him. Period. And then he will come to me. That's his deal. And nothing can't turn him off of that deal.
What do I do? Please help. To go or not to go?
I desperately desperately need an advice of someone who understands the situation and I'll be happy to hear any opinion,even very harsh..
I currently live in Israel and the guy is from Portugal. We met on facebook 3.5 years ago. He is single single and I'm a single mom of the perfect special needs boy.
Now I have a problem and I don't know what to do...I love that guy.Really really love him. He says he loves me too...We had millions of fights...said goodbye millions of times..He even dated someone else once (well I guess it wasn't just once but I know just about this one)...But somehow we always found our way back...
From the beginning he said that if I want to meet him I need to come to him first. Twice we talked about meeting "in the middle" and both times he refused explaining it as "not worth it" since I couldn't come for more than a few days (being single mom you know).
He refused to come here first and always gave different reasons. And I thought...well...Israel...maybe he is scared.
Twice I bought a ticket to Portugal...and cancelled. I don't know..Im afraid. Something weird always comes up. He doesn't want his family to know...and many many things that he says and does that just make me suspicious.
Last year I took my son to the eurodisney and I begged him every day out of ten to come and meet me.And he refused. I need to come to him. Period.
And I'm just scared..It's not just me...I have a son I'm responsible for..
I love him...he makes me laugh (which is rare)...he is my best friend..I need him...and I believe he likes talking to me..but it seems like he doesn't want to make any effort for me. And nothing matters...Not that I'm a single mom..not that my son has special needs..not that he is sick a lot..not that I have 1/10 of amount of vacations he has...not the fact his salary is five times bigger...I need to come to him. Period. And then he will come to me. That's his deal. And nothing can't turn him off of that deal.
What do I do? Please help. To go or not to go?
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