First meetings comming up.

[MyBadLife]

Hi guys and gurls ;3

I'm together with this Girl from Ireland for 8 / 9 months now (since march), and we planned to go on holiday together in March.
We are heading to Spain (Malaga), for 5 days and I'm really looking forward.
Yesterday she suprised me with a booking to my home for 2 days at my birthsday which is in February and I was so happy.

I'm just stuck with something now, I have no idea what I can to with her.
It'll be only for 2 days, and I want it to be the most amazing days I had for a long time.

Usually when I'm with friends we just do nothing... play some games, watch some TV, but that's not how I want to spend these 2 days with her...
Does anyone have any suggestions?
I came up with a couple of things, like going to the movies, cook ourselves dinner. But for the rest I have no clue...

If anyone could help me out with smth you usually do when you meet up, I'd love to hear it !

Thanks in advance,
Daan

[Redheart14]

Nice look outs or touristy points she might like to see. Show her your favourite places or spots. Take her to a nice restaurant or cafe.

[JaneEmily]

Well considering you're going to go to Malaga, I would refrain from wasting time at a cinema (that's something you can do on a long visit together in each other's home towns) and you should definitely make it memorable, I found a list of some sight seeing places in Malaga that may be of interest to you: https://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Attrac...Andalucia.html

Be sure that you don't just spend time just going out, make sure you have like at least a restaurant date or something similar, trying local food neither of you have experienced before so you can experience it for the first time together - cooking fresh ingredients from local markets would be a good idea too if you would like to also cook for her. This way you can physically get to know each other, get to see each other's eating habits away from Skyping. As it's only a 2 day stay, I would recommend you try experiencing Malaga together as much as possible without making it feel like you're too focused on sight seeing (you need time to also focus on each other, find out what you both like individually and you can do this simply just by asking your girlfriend what she would like to do on your trip) perhaps a nice walk along a quiet beach, hand in hand whilst watching the sun set would be a good idea. Temperatures in Southern Spain are quite good still in March (even if it's not as warm as the summer), especially the evening but make sure you both take a jumper just in case the air causes a chill (even then you use it an excuse to cuddle her whilst watching the sun set)

Good luck and have fun

[MyBadLife]

Hi!

Thanks for the quick answer.
JaneEmily, I guess either you understanded my first post wrong, or I wrote it wrong.
The 2day-stay will be at my place. She's comming over in February at my birthsday for 2 days.

In March we go to Spain for 5 days!

Sorry for confusing, I editted the first post to make it more understandable!

[JaneEmily]

Hi!

Thanks for the quick answer.
JaneEmily, I guess either you understanded my first post wrong, or I wrote it wrong.
The 2day-stay will be at my place. She's comming over in February at my birthsday for 2 days.

In March we go to Spain for 5 days!

Sorry for confusing, I editted the first post to make it more understandable!

Oh sorry, I'm really tired haha! I'm a bit of an idiot. I tend to scan read too quickly when I'm tired. But I think whatever you think feels right, it still depends on what you would like to do as a couple really

If she's visiting your home then you then I guess a cinema date and a nice meal would go nicely in the end

[MyBadLife]

Haha no worries dear.
I've got the same problem haha.

Thanks for the idea's anyways.

If anyone else has any more idea's feel free to share your thoughts!

[differentcountries]

Visit a nice restaurant. Rent bikes and go sightseeing. Go out to dance. Go on a concert or to see a show. Cook something at home.

[MyBadLife]

Haha, talking about Renting bikes in the netherlands?
Netherlands has more bikes then population xD

Thanks for the input! I guess I got some nice idea's on the list right now.

Cheers!

[MyBadLife]

What do you guys think about a Themepark? Is it a good way to spend a day for a first meeting?

[MyBadLife]

Or Karting?

[rhabdoviridae]

It really depends on her and your interests. I personally don't really like themeparks and wouldn't find that to be an enjoyable first meeting. Go karting or the like would be okay, but doing something where you can actually talk to one another too would be good - something like mini golfing, hiking, visiting a museum, going for a walk in a neat neighborhood, etc.

[MyBadLife]

Ok, thanks !