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    We know each other pre- LDR but haven't spent much time together IRL

    We have met in person, we have been friends for 2ish years, but we have never spent more than one night together since this LD almost relationship started.
    I am visiting him this Thurday for a whole week! I am beyond excited but also nervous. I am staying at his place (he lives alone). I am just trying to find some advice or someone experience with this because I don't even know how to google this- it seems unpresidented. friends starting a relationship but it has all been LD. Any idea for things for him and I to do? Also, I should say there is an age difference which makes things slightly more complicated. I am the younger to his older. I am mature for my age and he is a nerdy, young at heart 34.
    This is less weird for me because we have already been friends since we met through work.

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    I am not really sure what you are looking for. You are in a relationship now, why does it matter that you have been friends before? In fact, there is many relationships that developed after being friends for a long time! I have been friends with my fiance for a couple months before we started to date. So, what could you do? Watch movies, go to the museum, all things that you would like to do with your SO!
    On my first trip to be with him, we went to NY for a day trip, we went to the Connecticut Science Center and a couple of restaurants that I have never heard of before

    Relationship began: 05/22/2012
    First Met: 03/21/2013 - 03/30/2013
    Second Visit: 06/06/2013 - 08/21/2013 ~ Proposal: 07/06/2013 ♥
    Third Visit: 10/09/2013 - 01/08/2013
    Closed the distance: 11/20/2014 ♥
    Married: 1/24/2015
    Became Resident: 9/14/2015

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      #3
      both my LDR's have started off as friends before developing into more, my LDR only started back in July when I asked her out, but we have been friends since 2011, and we only met in June for the first time - for a visit as a friend!

      the purpose of that first visit was to go to a food festival, and head up the Adirondacks for a bit, and just see if the areas she had described to me over the years were as beautiful as she said they were.

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