Hello !
So, im in a long distance relationship with this girl, for about a year now. It's been going great, we live in the same country only that we live in diferent towns. I've met her through facebook, and since then, things got pretty serious about 2 months in, we started skyping each day all day, we started doing things together, building trust in each other, and most importantly, LOTS OF LOVE and caring, we learned together what love is despite the distance. Basicly, we love each other to death, thing is, this summer, we're about to meet. That's not the problem. The problem is that, im 17, she's 16. So we're still kind of in control of our parents, they set up the meeting (which i know, sucks, but we have no other choice). Basicly, me and her had plans that i'd stay for 1 week, her mother found an apartment for me, and we'd hang out and love each other. But this night, my mother talked with her mother on the phone, and they settled to just 3 days of staying, and that will be under the presence of their parents MOSTLY (not all the time probably) and when i heard that, i got an empty feeling in my stomach. I mean i get their POV cause it's risky and its the first time something like this happened, and it's for the best. But, our view on this, it's more... mnyeh... Like, i cant imagine her parents around all the time, and me, being unable to show my affection to her, beacuse im ashamed of her parents being there assisting to it. And also, her dad was not ok with this relationship in the first place, her mom is a bit: ''meh, lets just make our daughter happy'' so im not really GOOD looking in their parents eyes yet... I promised that i will fight for this relationship until the end, because i geniunely love this girl to death. Thing is, we both had high expectations about this meeting, and now it's just slowly falling apart with all the bad news we got on how it's gonna go. Also she wont be able to sleep with me or stay too much alone with me (cause duh... her parents...). Any of you have any ideas or suggestions on how should i act, when i first met her parents, what to do, and if this will get any better ? (hopefully). I know things, but you can never learn enough. Im a good guy generally, we're both comited to this, but these news just really brought us down a bit... Help ?!
So, im in a long distance relationship with this girl, for about a year now. It's been going great, we live in the same country only that we live in diferent towns. I've met her through facebook, and since then, things got pretty serious about 2 months in, we started skyping each day all day, we started doing things together, building trust in each other, and most importantly, LOTS OF LOVE and caring, we learned together what love is despite the distance. Basicly, we love each other to death, thing is, this summer, we're about to meet. That's not the problem. The problem is that, im 17, she's 16. So we're still kind of in control of our parents, they set up the meeting (which i know, sucks, but we have no other choice). Basicly, me and her had plans that i'd stay for 1 week, her mother found an apartment for me, and we'd hang out and love each other. But this night, my mother talked with her mother on the phone, and they settled to just 3 days of staying, and that will be under the presence of their parents MOSTLY (not all the time probably) and when i heard that, i got an empty feeling in my stomach. I mean i get their POV cause it's risky and its the first time something like this happened, and it's for the best. But, our view on this, it's more... mnyeh... Like, i cant imagine her parents around all the time, and me, being unable to show my affection to her, beacuse im ashamed of her parents being there assisting to it. And also, her dad was not ok with this relationship in the first place, her mom is a bit: ''meh, lets just make our daughter happy'' so im not really GOOD looking in their parents eyes yet... I promised that i will fight for this relationship until the end, because i geniunely love this girl to death. Thing is, we both had high expectations about this meeting, and now it's just slowly falling apart with all the bad news we got on how it's gonna go. Also she wont be able to sleep with me or stay too much alone with me (cause duh... her parents...). Any of you have any ideas or suggestions on how should i act, when i first met her parents, what to do, and if this will get any better ? (hopefully). I know things, but you can never learn enough. Im a good guy generally, we're both comited to this, but these news just really brought us down a bit... Help ?!
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