I don't know how many of you saw my past thread, explaining the whole ordeal with my boyfriends parents. But when I went to stay with him for a few weeks in June, we had planned with his parents for him to come here for the Holidays. They weren't super thrilled with the idea, but they got to the point that they would allow it. Then some things happened between my boyfriends mom and myself, that are way too long and complicated to explain. I was told by her that I would never be allowed to see him again. Well, when he turns 18 in June, she knows she can't really stop us from seeing each other then. We have also been saving money and planning for him to move to Michigan when he turns 18.
My parents have yet to meet my boyfriend. My mom is really bothered by the fact that because of his moms beliefs and stubbornness, she is unable to meet the one person who means so much to me. So yesterday she told me that if I can get his parents to allow it, she wants to pay to fly my boyfriend down here for a few weeks in December and maybe through to January. We are pushing for him to come here for 3-4 weeks.
So I talked to my boyfriends dad on the phone for a while last night. He and I have always gotten along really well, and even when the fights with my boyfriends mom were going on, his dad told me that he still loves me and wants nothing more than for his son to live a happy life with me. During our phone conversation, his dad asked me if I loved his son. I told him more than anything. He then asked me if I would be willing to spend the rest of my life with him, and I told his dad that I wanted nothing more than that. And that he means everything to me. His dad told me that he already knew that, but he wanted to hear me say it. He told me that before he starts pushing for this, he has to know that my boyfriend and i's relationship is really something worth fighting for. Because his mom hates me with a passion. She has made that extremely clear over the last two or so months. And the second his dad switches over to our side and starts fighting against her, things have the potential to get bad. My boyfriends mom is.... an interesting woman to say the least. She is a huge bigot, and with her, whatever she says goes. It's impossible to make her see anything but what she wants to see. So it won't be easy to change her mind, but my boyfriends dad said that he feels confident that he can make this happen. It will just mean that his mom is going to want even less to do with me, which I told him I would be okay with. I just want to see my boyfriend again.
So hopefully within the next few days I will find out if this is really happening or not. I haven't seen him in 5 months, and originally wouldn't be seeing him for another 7-9 months. So if he does get to come stay with us in December, I will be beyond happy. The only bummer is that I won't be able to get time off from work while he is here. But we are going to try to make the most of it anyways.
I will keep everyone updated on how things are going.
Also, if anyone really wants to know what happened between my boyfriends mom and I, I would be willing to type that out. It is just a long story that I figure not many want to hear, so I'm leaving it out for now. It is mostly religion based, and just..... His mom. To say the least.
I know I shouldn't be getting my hopes up, but I am so beyond excited for this. It would make me so happy if I could see him again. I miss him so much.
My parents have yet to meet my boyfriend. My mom is really bothered by the fact that because of his moms beliefs and stubbornness, she is unable to meet the one person who means so much to me. So yesterday she told me that if I can get his parents to allow it, she wants to pay to fly my boyfriend down here for a few weeks in December and maybe through to January. We are pushing for him to come here for 3-4 weeks.
So I talked to my boyfriends dad on the phone for a while last night. He and I have always gotten along really well, and even when the fights with my boyfriends mom were going on, his dad told me that he still loves me and wants nothing more than for his son to live a happy life with me. During our phone conversation, his dad asked me if I loved his son. I told him more than anything. He then asked me if I would be willing to spend the rest of my life with him, and I told his dad that I wanted nothing more than that. And that he means everything to me. His dad told me that he already knew that, but he wanted to hear me say it. He told me that before he starts pushing for this, he has to know that my boyfriend and i's relationship is really something worth fighting for. Because his mom hates me with a passion. She has made that extremely clear over the last two or so months. And the second his dad switches over to our side and starts fighting against her, things have the potential to get bad. My boyfriends mom is.... an interesting woman to say the least. She is a huge bigot, and with her, whatever she says goes. It's impossible to make her see anything but what she wants to see. So it won't be easy to change her mind, but my boyfriends dad said that he feels confident that he can make this happen. It will just mean that his mom is going to want even less to do with me, which I told him I would be okay with. I just want to see my boyfriend again.
So hopefully within the next few days I will find out if this is really happening or not. I haven't seen him in 5 months, and originally wouldn't be seeing him for another 7-9 months. So if he does get to come stay with us in December, I will be beyond happy. The only bummer is that I won't be able to get time off from work while he is here. But we are going to try to make the most of it anyways.
I will keep everyone updated on how things are going.
Also, if anyone really wants to know what happened between my boyfriends mom and I, I would be willing to type that out. It is just a long story that I figure not many want to hear, so I'm leaving it out for now. It is mostly religion based, and just..... His mom. To say the least.
I know I shouldn't be getting my hopes up, but I am so beyond excited for this. It would make me so happy if I could see him again. I miss him so much.
~~~ 
~~~ 
Comment