I came home and there's still dirty dishes in the kitchen from dinner and everything. I sent him home with a copy of one of my favorite books (The Fox Woman, I kept two), and I wish I'd thought to ask for something like that early on. Did laundry and I could still smell his shampoo on the towels.
I was pretty cynical about long-distance relationships when he first brought up it in March (I've been on this site before... that one was a disaster). We were good friends through our circle of MMO buddies, so I agreed and we started planning a visit a month or so later. I thought meeting him would be the hard part due to me being a rather shy person, and that saying goodbye would be the easy part.
I was expecting our first meeting to be awkward, for us to be completely different in person, maybe even for us to realize we couldn't work out. Within 10-15 minutes he felt like the exact same person. Same dorky laugh and everything.
Leaving was the hardest part by far. We cried and hugged each other an hour before he left and I had to fight it down again until I was actually home. How long does it take before things feel like they go "back to normal"?
I was pretty cynical about long-distance relationships when he first brought up it in March (I've been on this site before... that one was a disaster). We were good friends through our circle of MMO buddies, so I agreed and we started planning a visit a month or so later. I thought meeting him would be the hard part due to me being a rather shy person, and that saying goodbye would be the easy part.
I was expecting our first meeting to be awkward, for us to be completely different in person, maybe even for us to realize we couldn't work out. Within 10-15 minutes he felt like the exact same person. Same dorky laugh and everything.
Leaving was the hardest part by far. We cried and hugged each other an hour before he left and I had to fight it down again until I was actually home. How long does it take before things feel like they go "back to normal"?
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