This has probably been posted about before, but I started a long distance relationship about 2 1/2 months ago. We actually started as long distance, then lived in the same country for 10 months and got engaged, and now back at a distance. Of course, it's harder now as the love has grown. We live in different countries with 7 time zones in between. I moved to his country but now I'm back to the US to start on a PhD. I have to be here for 12 months (so now down to 9 1/2 months). There's only one opportunity for me to visit him next month, but I'm not sure if I should go. It's expensive and exhausting for me to make the trip, and I need my energy for classes in the fall. He also does not have much time to spend with me because of his job and he can't really take time off (he's a doctor/surgeon).
He's much less emotional than me and thinks 1 year is nothing. I am always on an emotional ride it seems. I feel like 1 year is endless. Has anyone spent 1 year without any visits in their relationships and have any advice? Do you think I should make the trip? It's only been 2 1/2 months and I really miss him and feel so lonely at times
He's much less emotional than me and thinks 1 year is nothing. I am always on an emotional ride it seems. I feel like 1 year is endless. Has anyone spent 1 year without any visits in their relationships and have any advice? Do you think I should make the trip? It's only been 2 1/2 months and I really miss him and feel so lonely at times
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