Hello all,
So I got back from America Wednesday where I met my partner in person for the first time after 19 years all up of knowing him online. It was the best three weeks of my life!!
We are just as good together as we always imagined; just so perfect for each other.
I now know what a hard time leaving actually is for you others; I was crying on and off the whole way home.
Luckily, as some of you have suggested, we arranged our next visit while I was still there; He will be visiting me in October which thankfully isn't too far away.
He'll then be visiting again in January where we'll be seeing an immigration Lawyer to help us with the Visa application process to have him immigrate here.
Exciting times for sure!
P.S. If anyone is still wondering how we can visit each other so often, it's because I at least have been very honest with my boss, hence I've told him that I will be needing to take a few lots of leave for the coming year for these reasons. He has been great about giving me what I need with my understanding that some of it may be leave without pay which I'm cool with.
Best of luck to all of you and I trust that you are as happy as I am; if not, that you will find the happiness you deserve very soon.
So I got back from America Wednesday where I met my partner in person for the first time after 19 years all up of knowing him online. It was the best three weeks of my life!!
We are just as good together as we always imagined; just so perfect for each other.
I now know what a hard time leaving actually is for you others; I was crying on and off the whole way home.
Luckily, as some of you have suggested, we arranged our next visit while I was still there; He will be visiting me in October which thankfully isn't too far away.
He'll then be visiting again in January where we'll be seeing an immigration Lawyer to help us with the Visa application process to have him immigrate here.
Exciting times for sure!
P.S. If anyone is still wondering how we can visit each other so often, it's because I at least have been very honest with my boss, hence I've told him that I will be needing to take a few lots of leave for the coming year for these reasons. He has been great about giving me what I need with my understanding that some of it may be leave without pay which I'm cool with.
Best of luck to all of you and I trust that you are as happy as I am; if not, that you will find the happiness you deserve very soon.
But eventually they say you will cope and O am glad you've already set up something you can look forward to. 
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