So. We're gonna meet for the first time in 91 days (yes I'm counting) and I am a very nervous person. As much as I'm very happy to meet him, beyond happy, I am also very, very, very, very anxious. I'm traveling to the US, so it's a 20 hours trip from France (going to Frankfurt first, no direct flights of course) so I'm gonna look tired, my hair is gonna be a mess, I'll be smelly etc etc... what if I don't look good? I KNOW it's not THAT important but I can't help but being a bit anxious. I've watched tons of videos online about how to look fresh after a plane trip, I hope it will help. And many things come to my mind: what if I don't see him right away at the airport? What if I see him, trip on my own feet and fall like an idiot? And most of all, WHAT AM I GONNA DO WHEN I SEE HIM??!! SHAKE HANDS???!!! I'm french, saying hello is one kiss on each cheek. He's american, they don't do that. I guess hugging is an alternative. I've watched videos on youtube of people in a LDR meeting for the first time and they are all hugging. For some reason, those videos look incredibly staged. I'm not gonna run and jump in his arms. I can't do that. I'll be paralyzed!! Yes that sounds more like me. I'll see him, stop moving and have a stroke. This is a nightmare, the anxiety is just gonna ruin it all. What if I cry? I look absolutely digusting when I cry, crying is just not an option. Should we kiss? I keep dreaming of the day we're finally be able to kiss and not just talk about it like some abstract idea, but should we kiss at the airpot or wait to be alone?
This is unreal. We're texting everyday, we skype several times a week, sometimes for hours. Just thinking that I'm gonna have him in front of me, it's just... I can't describe what I am feeling. But this anxiety is killing it all, I don't want it to ruin it. Has anyone felt as anxious as me? Do you have any advice? Any tips? How do you handle the anxiety? I know I won't be desappointed when I'll see him. But what if he is?
This is unreal. We're texting everyday, we skype several times a week, sometimes for hours. Just thinking that I'm gonna have him in front of me, it's just... I can't describe what I am feeling. But this anxiety is killing it all, I don't want it to ruin it. Has anyone felt as anxious as me? Do you have any advice? Any tips? How do you handle the anxiety? I know I won't be desappointed when I'll see him. But what if he is?
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