Hello,
This summer me and my girlfriend are going to meet for the first time (We are both 18), we decided to go to Algarve (Portugal) together.
Great idea overall, but such a trip is ofcourse quite expensive. For me it's not really a problem. But she has saved money for such a long time now. And I feel really bad for her having to pay half of the trip.
Because of this I don't want to suggest too many expensive things, but yet I do want her to have a great time whilst being there.
So once I offered to pay a little extra so she wouldn't have to pay so much she got mad, which actually resulted into our first fight.
Should I just let her pay? Or try to approach the situation in a different way?
This summer me and my girlfriend are going to meet for the first time (We are both 18), we decided to go to Algarve (Portugal) together.
Great idea overall, but such a trip is ofcourse quite expensive. For me it's not really a problem. But she has saved money for such a long time now. And I feel really bad for her having to pay half of the trip.
Because of this I don't want to suggest too many expensive things, but yet I do want her to have a great time whilst being there.
So once I offered to pay a little extra so she wouldn't have to pay so much she got mad, which actually resulted into our first fight.
Should I just let her pay? Or try to approach the situation in a different way?
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