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**Michelle** · June 13, 2018, 03:15 PM

Hi! Welcome to LFAD! If she doesn’t feel the same love for you then, then yes you should meet as friends (at least that’s what I think you meant to ask). People fall in love at their own pace, she just may need to meet you first to see if there are any feelings there. Weight does not matter - but I totally understand being so self-conscious when meeting for the first time. I had similar feelings too. I think most people do feel self-conscious, especially for a first time meeting. She may feel the same! Have you exchanged pictures of yourselves or been on video chat? That might help you feel less anxious.

**Redheart14** · June 13, 2018, 03:23 PM

Originally posted by Michelle View Post

Hi! Welcome to LFAD! If she doesn’t feel the same love for you then, then yes you should meet as friends (at least that’s what I think you meant to ask). People fall in love at their own pace, she just may need to meet you first to see if there are any feelings there. Weight does not matter - but I totally understand being so self-conscious when meeting for the first time. I had similar feelings too. I think most people do feel self-conscious, especially for a first time meeting. She may feel the same! Have you exchanged pictures of yourselves or been on video chat? That might help you feel less anxious.

This is good advice.
Just be yourself and try not to worry .

**Ramnarayan** · June 13, 2018, 08:31 PM

Originally posted by Michelle View Post

Hi! Welcome to LFAD! If she doesn�t feel the same love for you then, then yes you should meet as friends (at least that�s what I think you meant to ask). People fall in love at their own pace, she just may need to meet you first to see if there are any feelings there. Weight does not matter - but I totally understand being so self-conscious when meeting for the first time. I had similar feelings too. I think most people do feel self-conscious, especially for a first time meeting. She may feel the same! Have you exchanged pictures of yourselves or been on video chat? That might help you feel less anxious.

Thanx ..Yes we exchanged our picture but I shared not fully picture .. but she knew that am skinny but she dont know that am 55 kg only .. what I do now ?

**Chifuyu4** · June 13, 2018, 09:14 PM

Originally posted by Ramnarayan View Post

Thanx ..Yes we exchanged our picture but I shared not fully picture .. but she knew that am skinny but she dont know that am 55 kg only .. what I do now ?

It seems like you really get along well, so I'm sure if you like each other's personalities, things like weight won't matter very much. Who knows, she might be insecure about her weight too, or have other worries about meeting for the first time, just like you. Don't think about it too much and don't worry, I'm sure you'll have a lovely visit and I hope you enjoy being together!

**Ramnarayan** · June 13, 2018, 09:17 PM

Originally posted by Chifuyu4 View Post

It seems like you really get along well, so I'm sure if you like each other's personalities, things like weight won't matter very much. Who knows, she might be insecure about her weight too, or have other worries about meeting for the first time, just like you. Don't think about it too much and don't worry, I'm sure you'll have a lovely visit and I hope you enjoy being together!

Thanks .. .Friend I will go with confidence hoping for better

**ldrhealer** · June 13, 2018, 11:49 PM

Hey friend, that is so exciting that you both are finally going to meet soon! I think the best way to get to know someone is to find out what they are really like in person. To help settle the nerves, i think it would be best if you talk to her about what your nervous about when meeting her - if she knows your skinny already and doesnt mind than theres a good chance she won't even care when you meet. However, to make things less awkward for yourself, you could be try being honest with her and telling her that you are a little nervous about what she will think of your looks. See if you can find out what she thinks before you meet so you are free to be yourself and less self conscious when you meet. Being able to honestly express your feelings up front is a good way to gage if someone is into you or will accept you the way you are. If they don't, oh well, then you know they are not right for you! That's good feedback in itself. Good luck with your meeting!

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