Closing the distance with someone out of country
Hi, me and my boyfriend plan for him to visit me at university, but i’m scared that my parents will get mad. they have caught us in a relationship before and “forced us to break up” and just stay friends, but we have still been together. i also plan to go live with him after university but im scared to leave my parents after everything they’ve done and im scared they won’t support me. im also scared that they will do everything in their power to forbid me from ever seeing him again. im an adult now but they still treat me like a child. what do i do? i’m american and my boyfriends australian.
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Navigating relationships with both your parents and your partner can be tough, especially when cultural and personal expectations clash. Since you’re an adult, it’s important to confidently assert your independence while still considering your parents' feelings. Clear, honest communication is key. Consider having an open discussion with your parents about your feelings and future plans to see if it eases their concerns. It might be helpful to express how much your relationship means to you and assure them you’ll prioritize your well-being. Seeking support from a counselor might also help guide these conversations and decisions.
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