I figured it'd be better to stop clogging up the forum with this, so I'm gonna try to keep updates here.

Turns out that was, in fact, his sister on facebook. I told her that I hadn't heard from him since the 22nd, and I was starting to get worried. I asked her if he was okay, or if something had happened. I also asked her that if he was alright, would she be okay with kicking his ass for me and/or telling him to message me. I also apologized for kinda roping her into this, but explained that I tried getting in touch with him, and she's basically my last resort.

She was real chill about everything. She told me that she's been out, so she's not entirely sure what he's been up to, but since she hasn't heard about anything, she's sure he's okay. She told me that she'll let him know I was like "wtf" when she next gets the chance, and then gave me permission to kick his ass.

So now, I continue to play the waiting game.

I'm both relieved and annoyed that he, as far as his sister knows, is okay. Relieved, because thank god he's okay. Annoyed, because where the FUCK is he then?!

When he decides to show up again, he and I are going to have a long chat. It'll most likely end up me tearing him a wide variety of new ones, but I feel like it'll be well-deserved. Unless something is wrong that even his sister is unaware of, then this is just a completely inappropriate way to go about anything.

I don't think this is some weirdo way of trying to end the relationship, but I guess it's possible that he's suddenly regressed to being 13 again. Our dynamic was fine, though, before he did his little disappearing act. Like, one of our last conversations was him talking about how we just might have to have a quickie in the airport bathroom when he comes across, because he's not entirely sure he can wait until we have alone time (he's gonna have to wait). If something went horribly wrong after that conversation, then he's the only one aware of it.

I dunno. I'm not gonna worry about it. Freaking out isn't going to make him appear any quicker.