It really depresses me when I can't just do something with my boyfriend because of one thing or another. Before we closed the distance we played games together. Recently he bought another game for us and a friend of his, Ark: Survival Evolved. It is an online multiplayer survival game where your characters are literally just dropped on an island by aliens and you have to figure out how to survive. As you level you learn more advanced technology, so you can go from thatch huts to full technologically advanced bases. Oh, and there's dinosaurs. We're somewhere in the middle at the moment. I was mostly excited about getting to play something with my boyfriend because we hadn't played a game like this since before we closed the distance and games are what brought us together.

To be quite honest, I am not enjoying my time playing, and it's really upsetting me and it has mostly to do with his friend. Now, I knew this guy wasn't exactly some Ned Flanders type, nor did I realize he was pretty much like Cartman from Southpark. And I don't appreciate my boyfriend's dismissive attitude toward my qualms with this. Obviously I don't expect my boyfriend to not be friends with him or anything, but a little support and defense on my behalf on occasion would be appreciated. If he had an issue with my best friend I'd stick up for him. Then again, my best friend isn't a narcissistic asshole. I will explain my issues through the Mayo Clinic list of symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Having an exaggerated sense of self-importance
His entire personality just screams exaggerated importance. He thinks he's the only one that matters and he's shown absolutely no interest in anyone else's goals and ambitions with the game. He is quick to bark orders that would change our ultimate goal in the game and he doesn't care what we have to say about it. He certainly hasn't helped anyone unless there was a way he could benefit from it.
Expecting to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
He named our tribe after him, and he assumed leadership. There's only 3 of us, do we really need a leader? He sure as hell ain't the boss of me. He's also told people that he would never merge tribes because he prefers our current set up where only his opinion matters.
Exaggerating your achievements and talents
Throughout our time in this game, he has claimed credit for everything. He has even lied to claim importance. He told my boyfriend that he spent the entire night mining stone to finish up our base. He did not. Our neighbors in the game brought all of the stone to us. I was there. He downplayed how much they gave us and acted completely ungrateful.
Being preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
He does a lot of talking about what could be, what will be, what he wants to be, etc.
Believing that you are superior and can only be understood by or associate with equally special people
Well there is the fact that he doesn't listen or consider a damn thing I say even when I'm right and I know it's because he looks down on me. He wouldn't even let me be admin of our tribe. Again, there's 3 of us! Him, my boyfriend, and me. And I can't have admin rights?? The fuck. He has a tendency to look at other tribe leaders on our server like they're puppets and stupid monkeys that he can easily manipulate to get his way. He brags about it a lot too.
Requiring constant admiration
I don't know about this one.
Having a sense of entitlement
Again, the stone supply thing. He complains when people who donate supplies to us don't give us a frickin' gold mine or something.
Expecting special favors and unquestioning compliance with your expectations
He has a tendency to bark around orders and just assumes we will comply. And of the few times my boyfriend has defied him or debated him, he gets argumentative.
Taking advantage of others to get what you want
Ho boy. This has been a big one. He currently owes so many tribes and he has zero intention of paying any of them back. Also, he is currently conspiring with a bunch of them against each other. Again, this is where I say he is most like Cartman. Cartman in Southpark has a tendency to create schemes of sort. And he will lie, manipulate, and kiss up to anyone to get his way. He has a tendency to fuck it up because he digs his hole so deep he can't get out of it. Not to mention, this guy has shown zero interest or concern for what my boyfriend and I want to do. He just expects us to go along with what he wants to do. My boyfriend seems to have no problem with this and every time I do I get told "No one's stopping you from doing your own thing" and "You knew what you were signing up for when you decided to join." No, I didn't. And I don't think it's ridiculous of me to have a problem with it.
Having an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
He thrives off of offending people. Offending people empowers him. If he knows that he is bothering you in any way, he will go out of his way to do it even more just to see you get all worked up and upset and angry at him. You think he cares about other peoples feelings? Hell no. He'd turn on me with the flip of a switch, I know it. Even when told that one of the people in our group is his best friend's girlfriend's best friend, he had no problem targeting my best friend when we played H1Z1. Did he stop to think that maybe this would piss me off which would in turn piss off his best friend? No, because he doesn't care!
Behaving in an arrogant or haughty manner
Isn't all of the above arrogant???

I just want to play a game with my boyfriend, I want to play this game, and right now I feel like it's all about his friend. My boyfriend dismisses my concerns all the time and just shrugs everything off. And when we do play together he is in a bad mood because of the stupid drama our tribe has gotten into and he often takes it out on me. It's just a game and I just want to play it but his stupid no-life NEET friend is making it more than a game and he isn't making it very fun for me because there is no such thing as doing what Josh wants to do or what I want to do, it's only what he wants to do and what he thinks needs to be done.