Feeling a bit down...

Lady Death started a blog post Feeling a bit down...
February 21, 2012, 05:32 AM
Feeling a bit down...

Well...my SO got into a really awkward situation that not only caused him to lose a friend, but also made him look like he was cheating on me.

He's a socially awkward person...and so am I.

The thing is...he's been cheated on in the past by his ex-gfs(ldr) and I'm the only one he's had for the longest time. Another is that we're both open and honest with each other and he's afraid to lose me.

I really love him, but I'm scared that one day, something might tear us apart.

And it's not helping that we're miles away from each other.

I just want him in my arms right now.
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  BabyDimples commented
  
  February 21, 2012, 05:55 AM
  
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  I understand how you feel. Although this is my first long distance relationship (and last ) and can't relate to any others. But the distance does make it harder, and it can nearly drive you insane at some points, I think that anyway. It does get really hard, but all you can do is keep trying and doing everything that you can to make the relationship work. Like texting, skyping, msn, letters, calling etc. It would be great if there was a teleporting machine invented, but unlucky for us in long distance relationships, there isn't So all we have, is our SO and those on website like this who know what each other is going through and how hard it does get. So long as its what you both want and are both willing to keep it going, then no bump on the road can take you off course. You've just got to keep fighting and try and forget about the distance. Have you guys met yet? Have you got dates arranged to meet? You could ask him to send you a t-shirt that he's been wearing, or you could buy the same deodorant/cologne that he uses. Its not the same as having them there with you, but it really does help. I have one of my boys t-shirts that I have spread across my pillow and a teddy bear that he gave me. They both get sprayed with the deodrant that he uses, because that way I can cuddle something that smells like him, and I can smell him as I'm falling asleep Its hard, but I'm sure that you can fight through anything that gets thrown at you two. Try not to worry about it, I think that you'll be able to work anything out
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  Lady Death commented
  
  February 21, 2012, 07:05 AM
  
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  Well, I've sent him cards about a month ago and he loved them.
  (He's already written one for me and he's already got a gift for me...I can't wait to receive it...)
  
  We communicate almost every day and I never get bored of it.
  
  We do have plans on meeting IRL, but there are many problems:
  I haven't told my parents about him yet
  
  I have to wait at least 2 years(or until I graduate) to tell my parents about him
  
  I am most likely considered "too young" to be in relationships by society
  
  My parents are not the kind to trust anyone online, especially my mother
  
  All I want is to see him right now and hug him...
  But thanks for the advice though. :'D
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  BabyDimples commented
  
  February 21, 2012, 07:58 AM
  
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  Why don't you send him something sentimental to you, and vice versa?
  (Theres nothing I love more than recieving letters and gifts from my SO in the post)
  
  Thats the same here for us, but we can't talk as much anymore so its been difficult.
  My parents only found out that we are in a relationship a few weeks ago. They aren't really suppotive at all and as your mam, doesn't trust online people. Though my mam talked to his mam last night over webcam, and she seems a bit more accepting of our relationship. My dad is a whole different story. Why do you have to wait so long before you can tell your parents? That seems like a strict society, relationships are a part of growing up really.
  
  I know exactly how you feel... and your welcome
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