Since i came back from my first visit to see my SO in Canada, my ex husband (father of my 2 children) has been nothing but a huge pain in my ass. It's getting harder and harder to be the bigger person, to keep my mouth shut. He spoils the children, lets them get away with murder, homework is left undone ,reading books unread and there routine goes out the window. It makes my job even harder, i have to be the bad guy all the time.
I had to restrict access briefly when i had a genuine concern for there well being, i felt horrible for doing it but it had to be done. My ex has told everybody INCLUDING the children that i was stopping him from seeing them to make him chose between his new girlfriend and the children. Thats upsets me as the children heard it and mutual "friends" believe it and it's complete and utter crap. This piece of "news" was spread shortly after my engagement to my SO broke, coincidence i think not! Yet i am being painted as the bitter ex wife, when in reality i couldn't be happier to be his ex wife! I don't care about his new girlfriend, i've been told shes a lovely woman and my children really like her which is brilliant as far as i'm concerned. I am happier than i have EVER been with my handsome man, my soul mate. I really cannot wait to be his wife and spend the rest of my life with him.
It's seems like he's moved on to the outside world but why would you do this if you really had moved on?
Is it really too much to ask that the children have a decent father?