not been around here much.... don't think anyone noticed but I don't have any other way to get this out there.
My family is so messed up that I considering cutting all of them out. The level of crazy is just beyond the realms of normal and its dragging my husband and children down with me.
My mom is in a toxic relationship, they scream and shout over stupid petty shit and its gotten so bad my mother stabbed herself in the arm multipul times. My step dad is constantly losing his temper and smashing things and threatening to leave my mom. He tells her all these fictional stories which have caused a complete breakdown between my husband and my mom. My brother (who I used to be close to) involved himself in this mess and now I just want to smack him in the face and tell him he's not as smart as he thinks he is. He knows nothing about healthy relationships. He's been with his girlfriend nearly 20 years and thinks its ok to scream and shout when you fight.he thinks its nothing to worry about that our mother stabbed herself. He thinks its normal to call each other names while fighting. He's in anger management again (court ordered because he hit his girlfriend)
He even had the nerve to say I'm the black sheep now because im arguing with everyone and its my fault my mother is so stressed because of all the fighting. The fact is I only stood up for my husband and tried to dissolve the arguing that was started by the lies of my step dad.
Its just fucked up, and I can't cope