I already posted about this (I have posted several times about it, I think...) but I'm still angry/frustrated. I'm so sick of people telling me to be patient and that "it will happen when the time is right" or, worse yet, "don't rush into it" and shake their heads at me and laugh. i'm 24. i want to marry him. how is that rushing?! we're not even engaged. i'm frustrated because a couple of friends keep calling him my fiance, and i have to correct them, for my own sake. but on the flip side, i have friends who tell me "not to rush into it" or "just be patient".
i try not to be an angry person. but this... this is just so irritating. i have one friend who i feel like keeps rubbing it in my face. he & his SO are CD, and he's picked out the ring, and now he has to plan how to propose and they picked the dates they're traveling to europe together.... right now i'm just waiting to frigging SEE my SO again... and when i do it will be for like, 2 1/2 days. but hey, better than no days, right?
sorry, i'm just... really frustrated and angry and depressed. not a good combo. i'm going to eat a doughnut. maybe it will help.
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#2SARA951 commentedApril 24, 2012, 09:52 AMEditing a commentı really understand ur feelings . and u are rıght . ı wish ı could speak englısh better cuz really ı have many many thıngs to tell u . and make u feel that You are rıght 100 %... Nobody can know when the tıme ıs right . only u and hım can know. AND It seems like u r ready ,and time is right for u ..u need to talk to him... Breath and Relax nw. İf u beileve in Quantum then try to think pozitive ...and beileve everythıng gonna be ok..
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#3floridaellen commentedApril 24, 2012, 04:53 PMEditing a commentI actually kind of understand how you feel, although I'm a lot younger than you. All my friends seem to be getting married and having babies, which is weird because they are all quite young. It feels weird. I'm actually the one who has been in the relationship the longest but I'm so far behind all them in everything else. It sucks. I'm sorry
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#4MimiD commentedApril 25, 2012, 03:35 PMEditing a commentI know your mad ...and you don't want to hear to wait it out ..bit to each its own ..that fact that you guys get to see each other and love each other is a blessing enough .... I'm sure that he is thinking about marrying or he wouldn't bother being in a long distance ... The thing is he is probably just weighing things out making sure he is ready. Financially and also mentally. Enjoy the time now Hun..soon enough you will be the one planing a wedding..your not late ..your right on course in your life..your friends path was different and congrats to her...but for you its a lil different..My SO lives in another country and seeing him more often will be the most I can ask for ....So don't worry girl..your blessed and you have a wonderful man..some girls your age are now starting the dating game ....so that's something right?
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