It's just about six months since I made it official with my totally awesome close-distance boyfriend Tom! And I have come to realise over the last few months that I definitely, certainly, absolutely have fallen in love with him
This relationship feels so much more "grown up" than any of my last ones and there's no lingering feelings of doubt like some of you may remember me having in my last forays into the world of dating. Tom is just so cool and treats me like an equal - instead of putting me on a pedestal or treating me like dirt... which seems to be how it goes with my exes, ugh!So onto the topic of this blog post... I am so in love, and from the look in his eyes and the hints I get, I'm certain he feels the same way about me. BUT! We haven't said it. I've never waited before, but this time I've been taking it slow, but the last few weeks it's been ready to burst out of my lips! I want to make it a little special though, you know? So my question is...
How have you first said "I love you" to your partners?
Tell me stories!
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...but the walk there is going to be soooooooo sweaty so I'll be red faced and shiny and now apparently two of our friends are coming along too, so that's out! Plan B: I'll get drunk and blurt it out when we get home! Haha! But seriously, I have a feeling we're both trying to see who is gonna say it first, maybe he'll say it first?? I think he's a lot more patient than I am though!
And no, I have never said it first. Some stupid conditioning has prevented it because I thought he had to say it first, but I'm sure that if you say it he'll say it right back immediately.
So exciting