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Have you told her that you wanted to Skype with her? I think it is possible that she just copes with difficult situations in a different way than you, and so what's automatic for you isn't automatic for her. Or maybe she thought you felt better about it and she could go on to do what she originally planned.
In my experience it is best to bring these things up as soon as they happen, because the longer you wait, the more difficult it is to bring it up again. I suggest you gently approach the subject today, focus on letting her know that it means a lot to you if she's there for you the whole time when something bad like this happens.
Hi Malaga, thanks for the reply.
I hadn't told her I wanted to skype with her, I just assumed she would know. Which is wrong on my part. She and I talked about it today and she basically said the exact same words you did. What's automatic for me, may not be automatic for her. It's funny how much our minds can mess with us huh? I will have to work on that more and she said she will try to "read" my signs better.
Thanks for the input, it means a lot! It's pretty awesome to know there are other people out there who know what all of this LDR stuff feels like.
In my experience it is best to bring these things up as soon as they happen, because the longer you wait, the more difficult it is to bring it up again. I suggest you gently approach the subject today, focus on letting her know that it means a lot to you if she's there for you the whole time when something bad like this happens.
Good luck xx
I hadn't told her I wanted to skype with her, I just assumed she would know. Which is wrong on my part. She and I talked about it today and she basically said the exact same words you did. What's automatic for me, may not be automatic for her. It's funny how much our minds can mess with us huh? I will have to work on that more and she said she will try to "read" my signs better.
Thanks for the input, it means a lot! It's pretty awesome to know there are other people out there who know what all of this LDR stuff feels like.