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It sucks. I've experienced similar things. Being busy/stress affects people. Sometimes my SO is just so damn pissy, but he gets very stressed sometimes and doesn't tell me that he is, or that he's busy. So it's good that you know that she's got a lot of things on her mind.
If you want quality time with Allie, maybe you could schedule a time for y'all to Skype. Then she'll anticipate it, and maybe put more effort into communicating effectively with you.
This had been happening with my SO for a while too. We both were working and never had time to talk to each other and we both felt neglected by the other. What worked for us was having one day a week where we set aside a few hours to talk and do things online together. We unfortunately don't have that one day anymore, so instead we pre-schedule times to talk a day or two in advance and so far it's working out ok Chin up, this won't be forever <3
This had been happening with my SO for a while too. We both were working and never had time to talk to each other and we both felt neglected by the other. What worked for us was having one day a week where we set aside a few hours to talk and do things online together. We unfortunately don't have that one day anymore, so instead we pre-schedule times to talk a day or two in advance and so far it's working out ok Chin up, this won't be forever <3
Thank you!
We had a little talk about it this weekend and I feel better. She told me she noticed it too and that she knows it'll pass. Things have just been crazy busy. Made me feel better. I'm going to see her on Friday and I think I will bring up "date nights". This school semester is almost over, so I think it will be better soon.
If you want quality time with Allie, maybe you could schedule a time for y'all to Skype. Then she'll anticipate it, and maybe put more effort into communicating effectively with you.
Stay strong! Hope all turns out well
<3 Lori
We had a little talk about it this weekend and I feel better. She told me she noticed it too and that she knows it'll pass. Things have just been crazy busy. Made me feel better. I'm going to see her on Friday and I think I will bring up "date nights". This school semester is almost over, so I think it will be better soon.