It has been a year since my wife has moved to Canada and I haven't been this happy my whole life. But it seems that others aren't so happy.

Little background: I have a cousin, he's 17 and I've been his big sister his whole life. I've done so much for him and I would bring him to the cottage every weekend among a million other things we did together. I've tried to always be there because he's had a rough childhood with his father.

But ever since my wife has been around, making plans has been a bit harder. Understandable, right? But we still invited him to do stuff with us or invite him to our place for dinners and stuff. He was close with my wife and loved hanging around with us. But you know, life gets busy for us, he got a job and Allie actually made friends. So hanging out has slowed down quite a bit. We still texted and stuff but all of a sudden, my wife notices that my cousin deleted her on FB. I was hurt. So I messaged him asking if everything was ok, and I reassured him that I'm always around and that he can text or talk to me ANYTIME. I even said sorry for not being around as much. Well, he never replied. I gave it a couple weeks and still nothing. I messaged him again, maybe being a bit more blunt and honest. Explaining that effort goes both ways. He hasn't messaged me to make plans either. Ever. Why would it be up to me. And this was me making an effort. It usually is. Again he ignored me.

Not knowing what else to do, I messaged his mom, seeing if he was ok or if anything was going on that I didn't know what was going on. She said that he's probably jealous of my wife...fine. But I told her, I understand that, but why not talk to me about it? Why not ask to see me so we can fix whatever happened? Why just delete her? His mom did make a comment of "Married or not, people shouldn't forget the ones they love" I was kind of hurt by that comment, after all I've done for him. On top of contacting twice and getting zero reply. What else should I do? I told her that the ball is in his court now. I can't lose sleep over it anymore.

I been doing ok with whole thing...mostly. But it still sucks. Every once in a while, it pops in to my head and I worry. I feel bad for my wife because she doesn't deserve to be deleted like that, for no reason. I wish he has just talked to me about it. I guess I just have to wait and see what happens...

Thanks for listening.