Before I met my SO, I had this 'thing' (he didn't love me but we made out like crazy) with the brother of one of my best friends. Forbidden territory, I know, I know... Still. It was exciting, it was my first kiss, I felt special. And then he went and broke my heart, even though we weren't even dating. He fell in love with someone else and I had to hear his stories about her because he still wanted me to be his friend. I have hated this girl until this day, haha!
Anyway. Saturday we went to a fairly small theme park to celebrate the end of the school year with our church youth groups, of which I'm a leader. He isn't but he was still there. Of course he hung around me all day, together with some other leaders. But now the weird thing: As we were standing in line to enter one of the roller coasters (it so happened that he wanted to sit next to me) he took my hand and looked at my ring. (I got it from my grandma for my 18th birthday.) He said: 'Nice ring, I'll be buying one soon as well. But then a real one.' I was not sure if he meant what I thought he meant, and I was completely in shock. This guy is 22 and has dated the girl as long as I'm with my SO, so a little over 2 years. We got on the ride and didn't talk about it, but later when we were waiting for the kids he came back to the subject, telling me how and when and where he wanted to propose. I asked him if they already lived together, and he told me that she doesn't want to live together unless they are married. I think that's dumb, but okay, if that's your thing... I just hate how he talked about the 'good old times' with me, and how long ago it feels but at the same time it feels like it was yesterday, blablabla. I hate this guy so much, I literally almost killed myself after he betrayed me and let me down so hard. And then he talks to me like this? I am SO glad I never ended up dating him!
Vent over