So my SO has problems being emotionally vulnerable. Every time we have one of those moments he has to kill it with something else. Like last night, we were having a moment talking about him leaving in a week and how we were going to make it through this. Then he had to go and ask for a back rub in a joking tone. But then let's get to the bigger issue. That's just him being awkward at sweet moments.
He and I have not had sex in days. This is not normal for us. I've been doing everything I can to get that boy on board. Nothing works. Part of the reason it bothers me so much is because that's when he is good at being emotionally vulnerable and real with me. It's really special. And he just won't. He even says he will, and then it falls through. Like before the talk we had it seemed like we were going to. And of course the other part is that he is leaving in like a week and we should be like rabbits right now.
I just feel like he's so far away when he's right here and not matter how much I ask him to open up he won't. Ugh, this is so frustrating. No amount of talking will fix this if he won't give me an inch.
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nottheprincesspeach started a blog post So confused at this pointSo confused at this point
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#3ldrxoxo commentedEditing a commentHave you told him you guys don't have much time left together and that it should be spent well? Tell him you don't know when you'll see each other again or have you scheduled another visit? I'm sorry he's doing that. I would be very upset, too.
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#4nottheprincesspeach commentedEditing a commentWe have multiple visits scheduled thankfully. I am still in school, so that part is easy. And he knows how hard the time left we has is. We talked tonight and he is prepared to make the most of the time we have left together, so that is good.
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#5ldrxoxo commentedEditing a commentI'm happy to hear he is more open now! Glad it worked out.
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