I know many people have discussed this on forums, so it felt like a blog thing. My SO left all packing off until yesterday, so most of it got done today. I got him packed, loaded, and now he's gone. It's hard after spending so much time together and basically living together for him to just be gone. I think we can do it and make it until I graduate. I already have a couple of visits planned, and am very lucky. My last LDR started out as an LDR. It feels harder this way, at least at first. I already miss him. He left me with a shirt of his, but I already know the brief period his smell will last on the shirt.
I'm just sad. And I hate this, but I'll make it. We'll make it somehow, as difficult as it seems right now.
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nottheprincesspeach started a blog post In Need of SupportIn Need of Support
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#1ldrxoxo commentedEditing a commentIf you ever want to PM me to talk more, I'm here to talk with, too. If it were me I'd just X out all the days until the next visit on a calendar.
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#280anthea commentedEditing a commentIt is tough when you're apart again. I don't think there is an easy way to deal with it, what helps us is that we constantly remind eachother that it's only a temporary situation, we WILL be together again. Keep occupied as much as possible but also keep talking to one another, don't be afraid to tell him how much you miss him. -
#3nottheprincesspeach commentedEditing a commentYeah, we said "It's not goodbye, just good by for now" and "see you soon". He is basically vacationing with his family and friends he hasn't seen in forever for the first couple weeks with some business spattered in before he gets kicking at work again. I have family and friends making plans with me because they are awesome and my birthday was yesterday. I'm getting some perspective. I would trade all of it of course if I could just be with him every night again, but alas, I must graduate college first.
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