I am not pregnant. I was just in hormone withdrawal after stopping birth control. This was good though because my SO and I talked about kids in the future and how we would raise them. We didn't really disagree on anything so that looks good for if we do end up making it to marriage. There is no rush for that though.
My dad and I had a heart to heart about things yesterday and he questioned my relationship. He kept repeating "I know you think absence makes the heart grow fonder, but really absence makes the heart wander." It just bothers me how unsupportive he is. He thinks that no LDR can work, and all men end up cheating or losing interest. It's just disheartening to not have him on my side. He doesn't get to see the effort my SO puts in now, so he doesn't realize that we are both still putting a lot into it.
I know if we can make it until August it will be easy sailing from there. There will be holidays and then December will come and we will close the distance before he knows it. I'm just hoping that he includes me in looking for a house to purchase. I won't ask because he is buying the house, but we are going to live in it. I am going to end up decorating it and getting all the furnishings. I guess I should just trust his taste since we have never disagreed on anything like that before. Anyway, this was just a brief update for everyone that was aware of my last blog.
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#5dizzyupthemeg commentedMay 31, 2014, 12:50 PMEditing a commentMy father didn't even acknowledge that I was in a relationship until I got engaged. He talks about visiting now though. He even applied for a passport which is a big deal for my dad. Give him some time, and hopefully, he will come around.
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#680anthea commentedJune 1, 2014, 08:11 AMEditing a commentGood news about the pregnancy scare
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#7nottheprincesspeach commentedJune 1, 2014, 11:56 AMEditing a commentHe knows the guy quite well and likes him. We were CD for the first 9 and a half months. He just doesn't understand or believe in LDRs despite the fact that he and my mom have had spurts of it in their marriage. He has it stuck in his had that men will cheat and lose interest in LDs. My mom thinks he is bummed about me moving to Indiana to close the distance in December, especially because my SO and I aren't ready to get married. He is more traditional about the not living together before marriage thing. I don't want to confront him or anything. I'll just talk to him when he wants to talk about it and let him vent as necessary. I just wish my parents were all gung ho supportive about something. It feels like they are always negative about everything. BUT at least I am not pregnant.
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