So at before he moved and we went LD my SO had a furnished apartment that included what we called precarious cacti. They were indeed cacti. So he mentioned this week that he sort of misses his precarious cacti, so I think for our one year I'm going to send him a cactus plant, specifically a rosette. I think it being a little prettier than the previous cacti could be a good thing. It's like the guy equivalent of flowers I think.

I just can't decide what to put as the message, something simple, or complex. It is so confusing. I'll land on something eventually.

I think that's a good idea, and I can't come up with anything else.