wow,,I was impressed to see your post that you have an 11 year long distance relationship,,how did you do that?..can you give me some advice...I've been 6 mos. being away from my man,,,but its driving me crazy,,that I'm just seeing him on cam but I cant touch and kiss him....I miss him a lot...and then this past few weeks we always havin' argues..coz he's kinda bored..I dont know what to do..I feel so depressed

I'm sorry you are having such a difficult time. LDR's take a lot of work and patience. I'm not sure what you mean by "he's kinda bored". I miss touching and kissing Vernon, we go years without physical contact. But I appreciate his smiles on Skype, his jokes when chatting, his comforting words in emails when I'm sad, his gifts on special occasions, and just being the wonderful man that he is. We have never had an argument. We don't agree on everything, so we discuss things. We listen to each other and take into consideration the other's opinion. We respect each other's decision. There is no time for arguments for us, or no purpose. Try to be more patient with yourselves and with each other. Try to skype or talk on the phone more often. Skype is good because you can at least see the face of the other person while you talk. Moods and tone can be so misunderstood when chatting. Vernon and I don't really have that problem anymore... we can read the other's mood just by a few words in chat. But then we've been doing this for so long. Check out one of my blog posts. (link below) Someone in the same situation as you asked me for advice and this was my response. Good Luck.
Hugs!
Kimberly
http://kimberlyandvernon.blogspot.co...-kimberly.html