I was supposed to meet a friend later tonight. I've been craving sushi for weeks now, so the plan was to go to the recently opened sushi bar and after it, perhaps going for a drink or two at our favorite bar, which is near by.
...but she just cancelled. I was about to go back to the "things that annoy you" thread and write about how it annoys me when people cancel last minute, and even worse, when they don't even have the decency of calling/messaging you to cancel.
We made this plan on Wednesday, so this morning I messaged her to confirm if the plan was still up. She said yes, and that she would call me back to talk about where exactly were we meeting. That never happened, so I called her minutes ago and she cancelled because she thinks it would be better if we just go tomorrow. Really? And why the heck didn't you call me? Why didn't you tell me so when i asked you this morning if the plan was still up? Why did I have to call you to then find out we were not longer going?
She knows how much such behavior annoys me and that I am totally ok with a person canceling, but I am NOT ok with a person assuming I will telepathically know that she cancelled, or changed her mind.
We are losing respect for other ppl's time. I could've made plans with other friends if she would've told me earlier. I'm pissed and dreaming of Sushi, dammit!
Ah, and she so cool, like nothing happened just said: "we will go tomorrow, ok ami?!?" (Ami in her language is the short form of friend), but right now I am so pissed that inside my mind I am like "Tomorrow my B***". I will go and eat the freaking sushi tonight! So yeah, I am here waiting for my mom to get home from work. I will invite her because I don't want to sit there by myself and my mom makes great conversations. I'm just afraid my mom will say she prefers to go to the Mexican restaurant instead
... If that's the case, I will go to the Mexican, eat there and have a michelada beer. I swear they make the best micheladas I've ever tried. I could drink lots of them because they are sooo good, but I hate the "guilty drinker" feeling I get the next day. No, I am not a heavy drinker, in fact, I drink socially, but for some reason I always get a guilty drinker feeling the next day, even if I just drink 2 mojitos. 
Anyways, I just want to go out and do something light. I can't believe I am running out of friends available to do different activities.
, most of my friends have married recently, or had babies recently and so their priorities and life styles have changed, which I understand. But man, the ones that are not, just cancel. Great! -not!-
In the past I tried to joke about it, but it's getting to the point where I try to avoid making plans with her. The funny thing is: she gets upset when I stop making efforts to spend time with her.